Bachelor Parties From the Perspective of a Nude Strip Club Security Guard

This is a Must-Read for Engaged Ladies

By Karl Withakay, published Jan 03, 2006
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Bachelor parties. We all know what they are. The man's "last hurah" before he ties the knot.

Back some years ago, I worked as a "security specialist" at a nude strip club. I've seen these kinds of things with my own eyes ladies. Not all of them but many a good man has fallen when faced with a naked, gorgeous woman who's rubbing her perfect body all over him.

The Pros: There aren't really ANY as far as the relationship is concerned. But they do represent a male camaraderie that displays the bachelor's last chance to go out and do the "single thing" with the guys. And that kind of thing can be quite fun for the guy. (and the other attendees of the party).

The Cons:

Ladies: Do you honestly want your man at a strip club with his buddies (who are very capable of keeping secrets) with drink flowing and BEAUTIFUL naked women rubbing all over him? Now not all strippers are prostitutes but prostitution in strip clubs is not unusual at all.

Most strip clubs work like this. The stripper goes up on the stage and performs on the pole. At that time guys can stuff bills in her g-string and that's about as far as it goes. After she finishes her performance, the stripper will go around to every guy in the bar for tips. For these tips, she usually will do something like ride the mans knee with her chest in his face. Some will allow a bit of touching but it usually doesn't go too far. Now perhaps your man isn't the type to spend alot of extra money so he's not a big tipper. But, you see this is his BACHELOR PARTY so it's not likely that HE'LL have to pay for much anyway. Then there are back rooms at most strip clubs where the guys can pay a fee for a "one on one lap dance". These rooms are private usually with a guy like me standing within earshot in case something gets out of hand.

Now MOST clubs have a "don't ask don't tell" policy for these private rooms meaning if the stripper decides to do anything "extra special" for the man in that room for extra money, it's up to her but the club doesn't want to know about it. The fee usually runs about $20. The stripper club gets $10 and the club gets $10.

Takeaways
  • I've seen these kinds of things with my own eyes ladies.
  • The Pros: There aren't really ANY as far as the relationship is concerned.
  • Ladies: Do you honestly want your man at a strip club with his buddies?
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wtf were you doing working at a nude strip club anyway dumbass ? love you . x

Posted on 05/26/2008 at 5:05:32 PM

 
Very brave to reveal some behind the scenes information! These are the kind of things that women need to hear straight from the horse's mouth, so to speak. My male friends have also mentioned that strippers can be "extra-friendly" for the right price, so I believe every word!

Posted on 01/31/2008 at 7:01:18 PM

 
I am getting married soon and my FH says he does NOT want strippers. I fear that there will be strippers because he is the first of his friends to be getting married and that the other guys will see it as a way for them to have a good time.(if you know what i mean) I just feel horrible about the idea of strippers. I know that if I was to get down ONLY to a g-string and sit on some mans lap my FH would go insane. I just hope that on my wedding day I can look at him without being worried that I'm about to marry a man who just had naked women all over him the night before.

Posted on 10/16/2007 at 9:10:00 AM

 
I appreciate hearing this from a pros perspective. I have been to several strip clubs and have often wondered what goes on in the "private" rooms. Having a first hand education of strip clubs and reading this articles "behind the scenes" info has affirmed my gut feeling about strip clubs - I won't be feeling guilty anymore when I tell my boyfreind that I dissaprove!

Posted on 10/11/2007 at 3:10:00 PM

 
i let my boyfriend have his bachelor party, i even hepled him pick out the hotel room! i was promised that there was going to be no women in that room, none at all. of course i was lied to, there was drinking and one of the guys brought his girl in the room, added to the fact that there was dirty magazines in there too...it has painted a real bad picture in to my mind even now that it has been 5 month's later. as a warning to all girls getting married MAKE SURE of what is going to happen and do all you can to make sure that's all that happens because it almost cost me my marriage!

Posted on 10/06/2007 at 12:10:00 PM

 
Yes thank you my boyfriend is soon going to his friends bachelor party which involves strippers and with my insecurities i wanted to do a bit of research

Posted on 07/07/2007 at 5:07:00 PM

 
Hmm.. I had heard about so many such instances...but never knew of anybody who'd experienced it first hand. Informative!

Posted on 06/21/2006 at 11:06:00 AM

 
Thank you soo much...this was very informative!

Posted on 04/04/2006 at 8:04:00 PM

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