A Guy's Guide to the Valentine's Day Date

Yep, It's approaching. Valentines Day! And guys, you KNOW that you're lady is all set on romance on this day. But what if you're not the "romantic type"? Not to worry. I'll show you how to show your lady just how much you love her on that special day.

Many guys are at a loss on what to do for Valentines Day. I think the amount of men who are the romantic type is likely less than 40%. Women know this and over the years, she may not really expect much more than a nice card and a dinner date. But you can do so much more and you don't have to break the bank doing it. Here are a few pointers.

Flowers: Now it's pretty common to come home with a dozen roses but you can do that and have even a bigger effect on her. If she works, (and in most couples, both man and woman work), instead of bringing the flowers home to her when you get home, have them sent to her at work. Her friends will all see it. Women LOVE to know that they are thought of and they love even more to show that off to their friends and co-workers. Or even if you work and she stays at home, have them sent to her at home.

The Card: Now if you're capable of writing well and putting your feelings on paper, I recommend writing a little something romantic and sweet to her in the card but if you're not, you're in luck. These days you can get a greeting card to say just about ANYTHING. Up to and including something like, "I know I'm not very good at expressing my feelings, but I want you to know that….". Take your time when searching for a card. Big and pretty don't mean NEARLY as much as just what it says inside. Your lady will be able to tell if you just grab one.

Plan ahead: Don't run around like a maniac on February 13th trying to get everything set. You can't take your time if you have to rush. Make reservations and pick out any gifts ahead of time. Don't forget to buy candles. You'll need them. Make it a goal to have everything all set one week BEFORE the 14th.