7 Reasons to Consider Adoption Rather Than In-Vitro Fertilization

By Lindsey Russell, published Dec 26, 2007
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The choice between adoption and in-vitro fertilization as ways to deal with infertility is extremely personal; however, there are some valid reasons why adoption may be right for many couples. Here are 7.

1. There are too many children that need loving, caring homes.

The sad fact is that there are too many children already brought into this world that need a loving, caring home. If you can provide that, why not do so? By adopting, you will help to make a small dent in a much larger issue. On the other hand, with in-vitro fertilization, you aren't guaranteed results. You might just be left heartbroken.

2. In-vitro fertilization, although improving, is far from 100% effective.

In-vitro fertilization has come a long way in the short time that it has been around; however, it is still far from perfect. Most couples have to go through at least two tries before they are successful. Others are never successful, or are successful after several different attempts. Each round involves great expense, extensive hormone therapy, and the rollercoaster ride of waiting to know if you are indeed pregnant. It takes couples on average three or more tries in order to have a successful outcome.

3. While both adoption and in-vitro fertilization can take an emotional toll on a couple, adoption provides a better chance for a good outcome.

Neither the adoption process nor the in-vitro fertilization processes are easy. However, you are much more likely to be successful with adoption. In-vitro fertilization will often just leave you still trying to fulfill your dream of becoming a parent and broke.

4. It may take several tries before in-vitro fertilization is successful.

You may go through several rounds of in-vitro fertilization only to never get pregnant. Worse yet, you might end up becoming pregnant only to have a miscarriage. Then again, you might have no success with in-vitro fertilization at all. Is it really worth trying multiple times on the chance that you might never become pregnant?

5. While you may have to go through an emotional journey with adoption, you won't have to go through physical changes.

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People get talked out of adopting older children because the child may have "issues." I also find it--odd how people like Angelia Jolie & Madonna find it necessary to go all the way to AFrica to adopt a black child when there are tons of black children right in the USA who need homes.

Posted on 04/23/2008 at 8:04:25 AM

 
I've seen numerous adoption stories where they show older children in foster care who go through adoption fairs. I think it's wrong to lie to these children & get their hopes up. The reality is few people adopt because they want to provide a loving home for a child who has none. People adopt because they want a cute cuddly, blank slate infant. Forget adopting interracially (what would the neighbors think). In many ways I think people who can't handle an interracial adoption shouldn't do it.

Posted on 04/23/2008 at 8:04:15 AM

 
For some people #7 is really important, but #1 is a pretty compelling argument.

Posted on 12/26/2007 at 1:12:30 PM

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