How to Keep Your Virginity on Prom Night

By Futura Condensed, published Mar 18, 2007
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For those of you who have managed to keep your virginity in tact up until now, you may not want to give it away so easily on prom night.

There is a long-standing tradition that has been popularized by the media that prom night is the night. This is ridiculous. For anyone who has managed to stay virginal through their teens, there is no reason not to finish out the year, or even your high school career that way.

There are some important steps you can take to ensuring you will be just as virginal the morning after prom as you were when you left the house.

How to Keep Your Virginity on Prom Night: 1. Go With a Friend

If you have a serious boyfriend or girlfriend, chances are you may have already lost your virginity. So none of this will apply to you. If you have a casual boyfriend or girlfriend that you really like, you may not want to go to prom with them. You may be tempted to fall into the "off like a prom dress" cliche, and wind up deflowered after the big event.

Instead, your date should be a close friend. Go with someone you "don't like likethat." Do you have a friend that if you think about kissing you kind of go, "eww"? Then that is your ideal date for keeping your virginity in tact.

How to Keep Your Virginity on Prom Night: 2. Do Not Drink

Drinking will definitely undo number one above. If you drink before, at or after the prom, your perspective will change. You could throw a lifetime of virginity down the drain with one or two (more?) stiff drinks. Your date, who is your "friend" might start looking a little too attractive after some booze. You will regret it in the morning.

How to Keep Your Virginity on Prom Night: 3. Don't Wear Brand New Sexy Underwear

Seriously. Do not pull out the brand new sexy or hot underwear. Wear comfortable, dress-compatible underwear that is practical, not sexy. Wear some underwear that you do not want to traipse around in.

How to Keep Your Virginityon Prom Night: 4. Plan a Post-Prom Girl's Get Together

How to Keep Your Virginity on Prom Night

The best prom date for keeping your virginity in tact is a good friend.

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Takeaways
  • Go with a friend, not someone you want to see naked!
  • Plan a "girls only" gahtering for post-prom fun.
  • Do not wear your sexiest underwear.
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ummm i totally disagree with the way you said: "If you have a serious boyfriend or girlfriend, chances are you may have already lost your virginity." i have a serious boyfriend who im going to prom with,and we are still planning to stay virgins until marriage. but anyway,nice article!!

Posted on 08/27/2007 at 2:08:00 PM

 
Amanda darling, apologies if I have offended. Some of this was meant a tongue in cheek (in a completely non-sexual manner, of course). Congrats to you for not having "slept with" your S.O, but you are in the MINORITY. More than half of teens age 15-19 are having sex according to the Centers for Disease Control. Sterotype, no, it is fact.

Posted on 03/29/2007 at 4:03:00 PM

 
I am personally offended by the fact that you think just becuase two people are serious with each other that automatically means that they have slept together. Being a senior in high school and going on two and a half years with my serious boyfriend, I can tell you from experience that it is possible to have a long term relationship with someone and not have sex. You're article mentioned nothing about those of us in those serious relationships, and obviously going to prom with our significant other, and how we are supposed to handle this night in that respect. It is these kinds of stereotypes that give teenagers a bad name.

Posted on 03/28/2007 at 10:03:00 PM

 
Cool article topic. It's sad how much social pressure young girls face to put out on certain occasions.

Posted on 03/19/2007 at 3:03:00 AM

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