Do You Hate Your Family?

Did you ever think that you hated your family? If you answered this question with a no, then chances are that you're probably lying. Everyone hates their family at one time or another and it is a known fact that there is someone in your family that you hate more than the rest. There has to be a time when you're at dinner with the cousin that everyone loves or your brother who can seem to do nothing wrong. And where are you in the family? Maybe you are either like Monica on Friends, who was the formerly fat failure. Maybe you're the one that's probably hated because everyone thinks that you're perfect. Either way, there has been a time, or there will be times where you will hate your family. Here is five ways to tell if you have hated your family or will eventually hate your family.

-You screen your calls when you think that your mother is calling: This is a rather difficult procedure when you live at home but it is rather easy if you don't. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to know that you are probably annoyed by your mother and you don't wish to talk to her if you are doing so. To rectify this situation, pick up the phone. That's right. You have to pick up the phone and tell your mother that you really can't talk right now. Even if you have to give her an excuse, like the sky is falling, tell her. Don't be a chicken but remember that the Bible says to honor thy mother and thy father so be careful.

-You avoid your father like the plague: I think that this will only work if your father avoided your family like the plague when you were little and he's just now trying to get back into your life. This won't be easy to do if you have a soul, but there are a lot of people who don't. So, you may be one of those who have a soul. A lot of girls are Daddy's girls, so this won't be easy for women who were Daddy's girls unless your father did something horrible to you when you were younger. To rectify this situation, tell your father how you feel about what he's done to you. Otherwise, you can wait until he gets the feeling that you're mad at him and he explains why he did what he did when you were younger. Either way, get it out in the open and clear the air. Both of you will feel better.