A World History of Sexuality: Given Our History, Why Are so Many Afraid of Sex?

Sex Didn't Used to Be so Taboo

By Donna Talarico, published Mar 21, 2007
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This article, I feel is a much-needed response to some rather conservative comments about sexuality that have been made on some racy AC content.

These comments made me question why so many people are afraid of casual sex, why those same people consider those who engage in casual sex have no self-respect and people still preach that premarital sex is taboo.

Two issues that were brought up were the risks involved in unprotected sex. Are STDs and unintended pregnancies an issue? Yes. But one-night-stands or not (one of my recent AC content favorites), unprotected sex even between the committed can result in a disease or pregnancy. More often than not, surprise pregnancies happen to monogamous couples. And STDs can oftentimes take months or even years to show symptoms and therefore, someone who loses his or her virginity to someone they trust could still contract an STD. The partner who has the STD may not even now they were infected.

Now that I covered those two points, let me delve into the real meat of my article. I will look back into the history of human sexuality on a global basis and examine that casual sex is something that was not always criticized.

It's funny how nudity is something so shameful in American society today. However, when naked bodies are shown in museums, it is classic art and looked at as educational. What baffles me is that at the time these paintings and sculptures were made, the world was so much more liberal. Students of art and culture are taught to appreciate these works, yet society looks down on openness with sexuality. That confuses the heck out of me.

(Also, please note that my opinions end here and the following are factual anecdotes. This means that I welcome discussion; however do not criticize me as the author on the following.)

Sex in Mesopotamia

According to historians, the ancient Mesopotamian society practiced sexual openness. In fact, the Mesopotamian goddess Ishtar was the primary goddess of life, men and women, nature and fertility, sex, sexual power and birth.

A World History of Sexuality: Given Our History, Why Are so Many Afraid of Sex?
A World History of Sexuality:  Given Our History, Why Are so Many Afraid of Sex?

Sculpture of erotic Indian sex.

Credit: NewAgeInfo.com

Copyright: NewAgeInfo.com

Takeaways
  • The Kama Sutra was an explcit sexual text from India, one still praised today.
  • Mesopotamian women were encourage to have sex with strangers.
  • Greek women were encouraged to have sex before marriage.
Did You Know?
According to the NPR story on the Eros exhibit: "In antiquity, erotic practices that had nothing to do with procreation - male and female homosexuality - were completely accepted by society," the archaeological superintendent says.
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Thanks, Dr! Thanks for reading all of my stuff. Now that I know you don't live in America, I see why you enjoy the pieces that you did. It's funny how we are taught here that America is the best country in the world and then either through self-study & awareness or by going to a liberal university, we realize how twisted and backwards America really is! Thank you so much!

Posted on 04/21/2007 at 7:04:00 AM

 
Americans are the laughing stock of the rest of the world, and this is one reason why. Here in Sweden, nothing is censored. Yet you don't see the kids growing up to shoot up their high schools or become serial rapists... You may be my new hero.

Posted on 04/21/2007 at 12:04:00 AM

 
Yes Americans are very secretive about sex and like to cover it up as much as possible while places in Europe and Asia like to flaunt it LOL Well, not flaunt it, but they certainly aren't scared of it either.

Posted on 03/27/2007 at 11:03:00 PM

 
Interesting.

Posted on 03/22/2007 at 11:03:00 AM

 
Just wanted to give examples of different cultural views on sex so we didn't think 'ours' were the only ones! ;)

Posted on 03/21/2007 at 3:03:00 PM

 
You write all of this as if our sexual behaviors should be modeled after the sexual attitudes of civilizations that collapsed... many because of their very liberal attitudes... then too, in your first three paragraphs you go on to cackle about why we shouldn't just all boink when where and who we want to, but also give the very reasons why we should be rather discretionary...somebody once asked me if I was high...maybe I still am, but you seem to argue your own point right into the dirt...I read it though, so, it must be good.

Posted on 03/21/2007 at 12:03:00 PM

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