Why Are People Sooo Prying?
There are really questions that irk me. These are the kinds that are being asked over and over again by different people wherever you go--at work, during parties, at mealtimes, during encounters at the mall, etc, etc.At first, it was "When are you getting married?" People knew that I was going out with my boyfriend then (who is now my husband) for several years and people kept asking me when to get married and then egging me to get
Now that I am married, people are subjecting me to another round of questioning. It seems that after a long engagement and finally settling down, they just found a way to pry my private life with more questions. "Are you pregnant now?" "When do you plan to have a baby?" etc. etc...all pertaining to the baby stuff.
Although my husband and I are desiring to have a baby, we both know that it is not in our control. God is. He gives and witholds all things, according to whatever will give Him the most glory. And I think, not getting pregnant at this time is a grace from Him. After all, we only got married recently and I think God just wants to give us some time to have a honeymoon.
After a year and a half of trying, I got pregnant and now I have a baby. Guess what the next question people are asking me now? "Are you going to have another baby?" When will these questions end?
As a person who doesn't like to answer too many questions, sometimes people are getting to be annoying. Oh well, I guess that's life. I just have to contend with them. :-)
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