What to Do when Baby Won't Sleep Through the Night

One of the most difficult adjustments we make as new parents is learning to deal with less sleep. We want our babies to sleep through the night so that we can get back to our normal sleep habits. Unfortunately, that's not always what the baby
 has in mind. Here are a few tips on helping improve sleep quality for the whole family.

Make sure she's getting enough daytime naps

Most babies have a hard time sleeping when they're overtired. They may have a hard time falling asleep and staying asleep because their little nervous systems are too wired from exhaustion. Make sure your baby gets enough quality naptime during the day, and start getting ready for bed at the first signs of tiredness. Don't wait until she can't hold her eyes open to put her to bed.

Set up a bedtime routine

And stick to it. This can be whatever you want it to be, as long as it's consistent. Many babies' sleep routine involves a bath, song, and rocking, but you can also include things such as baby massage, a bedtime story (short ones for younger babies), or just about anything that soothes and calms your baby and lets her know that it's bedtime.

Avoid giving solid foods too close to bedtime

Sometimes babies have a hard time digesting solid foods. If they eat too close to bedtime, their tummies hurt, interrupting their sleep. Try giving solid foods earlier in the day and then feeding only breastmilk or formula in the evening.

Nurse frequently throughout the day

Studies have shown that babies sometimes consume as much as 25% of their total nutritional intake during nighttime feedings. This may be due in part to distractibility during the day. There are so many interesting things to look at during the day, and sometimes baby can't concentrate on getting as much food as she needs, which then makes it necessary for her to make up for it at night. To combat this, you could try to squeeze in extra feedings during the day. You may also want to try feeding your baby in a quiet room with little stimulation so that she isn't so easily distracted. If she gets what she needs during the day, she may not need to wake as frequently during the night.

Snuggle as much as you can during the day

Related information
It is completely normal for babies to wake during the night well into toddlerhood. It's actually quite rare for a young baby to sleep all night without waking.
 
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Posted on 04/15/2009 at 12:04:38 PM

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Posted on 01/15/2009 at 4:01:29 PM

My baby is 3 and a half months he stays up every night about 6pm to 9pm then he goes to sleep and walkes at 12am after that he wakes every 2 hrs, Lord help me.

Posted on 04/22/2008 at 2:04:09 PM

This article is getting forwarded to my other stepdaughter, Carrie. Her son Adam was born in December, and she and her husband are having trouble getting him to sleep through the night. Thanks!

Posted on 04/03/2007 at 11:04:00 PM

I didn't have my boys sleep with us when they were babies. My hubby tosses and turns too much. But I did the thing doctors say NOT to do. I had them sleep on their bellies. They were sleeping through the night by 4 months. Until my youngest was 9, he slept on his belly with his rear end sticking up in the air. For some reason that sleeping position was comforting for both of them. And they both start off the night on their bellies to this day.

Posted on 04/03/2007 at 8:04:00 PM

I have three children and they have all slept with me at some point when they were babies. I never had any problems with it. My middle one, quite a bit. We did have a super big bed though too. But none of my children have poor sleeping habbits now. I thought this was a good article!

Posted on 04/02/2007 at 6:04:00 PM

Research has proven just the opposite, actually. Children whose needs are met grow up to be more self-confident and less dependent on their parents. We're not talking about coddling a 5-year-old who is throwing a temper tantrum, we're talking about comforting a crying baby who knows nothing other than her parents.

Posted on 04/02/2007 at 7:04:00 AM

Coddling a baby is the same as showing them they will get picked up every time they cry. If you don't come running when they cry it doesn't mean you don't love them, but it will show them they can't manipulate you. You should never pick a baby back up once you have put them down for sleep. They learn if they cry they will get attention and this will make your life ahrder in the long run.

Posted on 04/01/2007 at 5:04:00 PM

Joyce, that is an excellent compromise. A lot of people are uncomfortable with cosleeping, or shouldn't for various reasons. Bedsharing absolutely doesn't work out for everyone, but it's also not inherently dangerous for everyone. It works out wonderfully for many families.

Posted on 03/31/2007 at 5:03:00 PM

"Doc", my pedatrician and many experts do recommend bedsharing. If my child cries, it's because she needs something. I'm not the kind of person to ignore my child's needs and let her "tire herself out" crying in vain. I want my child to know that her needs will be met when they arise, not that I don't care about her when she cries.

Posted on 03/31/2007 at 5:03:00 PM

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