While making love to someone special is all good and fun, often we as human beings need some sexual healing without any strings attached.
This does not necessarily have to equate to a one night stand, but we all know that sometimes a brief session under the sheets is strictly just that; a booty call where no one is forced to call each other the next day.
It's in our nature to explore our sexuality, and by now everyone should know that masturbation is a healthy outlet where one can relieve stress on his or her own time.
But what about when you get that itch? That driving force of lust in your body telling you that it needs to be fed?
As a basic instinct of survival, a person can surely take the route of scouring bars, clubs or whatever his or her scene may be, in search of someone to satisfy them for one night only. After cleansing yourself of this person (and any alcohol that may have been involved,) the morning after might not feel like such a disaster.
Of course, when sex is just sex, and both parties can agree on this, sometimes two people can walk away from the situation unscathed. It's a harmonious agreement where the terms are strictly physical.
Some enjoy this freedom; others are left with huge question marks in their heads.
So how long does this go on before things start to get tiring, routine and/or confusing? Or before you start to feel overly promiscuous and nasty for your night-time adventures?
People in relationships, or people that are "hooking up," don't have to worry about this problem. But what about the single folk?
What about the people who have no desire to be in a relationship but no longer want to partake in random, meaningless sex? Are those our only options?
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This does not necessarily have to equate to a one night stand, but we all know that sometimes a brief session under the sheets is strictly just that; a booty call where no one is forced to call each other the next day.
It's in our nature to explore our sexuality, and by now everyone should know that masturbation is a healthy outlet where one can relieve stress on his or her own time.
But what about when you get that itch? That driving force of lust in your body telling you that it needs to be fed?
As a basic instinct of survival, a person can surely take the route of scouring bars, clubs or whatever his or her scene may be, in search of someone to satisfy them for one night only. After cleansing yourself of this person (and any alcohol that may have been involved,) the morning after might not feel like such a disaster.
Of course, when sex is just sex, and both parties can agree on this, sometimes two people can walk away from the situation unscathed. It's a harmonious agreement where the terms are strictly physical.
Some enjoy this freedom; others are left with huge question marks in their heads.
So how long does this go on before things start to get tiring, routine and/or confusing? Or before you start to feel overly promiscuous and nasty for your night-time adventures?
People in relationships, or people that are "hooking up," don't have to worry about this problem. But what about the single folk?
What about the people who have no desire to be in a relationship but no longer want to partake in random, meaningless sex? Are those our only options?
www.theneave.com
Comments
Conney
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11/17/2009
I was somewhat surprised by this article because there is so much research that has been done about casual sex and the reality that it is not healthy/good for you. Though you may participate in casual sex and feel like you enjoy it at the time, studies have shown that it is not lasting and has negative effects on a person. "Sexual healing without any strings attached" is an oxymoron...sex is designed to make you bond to another person, that's what the chemicals that are released in your brain during sex are for. It may not seem this way, but "unattached" sex is not healthy for your emotions or your body. I would encourage you to read about oxytocin and sex (which can be found in Dr. Joe McIlhaney's book called Hooked...or any articles about his book are really informative). You can also read stuff by Dr. John Van Epp (his relationship attachment model). Good luck in your search, I hope it is fruitful!
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