How to Cancel Your Wedding when You Change Your Mind

By renee, published Mar 24, 2007
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Everyone always says that it is a girl purgative to change their mind. This also goes for men too, especially when it comes to changing your mind about getting married. Many people fail to realize that you can change mind at anytime before you say I do. There is no reason to feel embarrassed about your decision. Although you should make up your mind before you actually reach your wedding day. You should expect that some people are not going to be very positive about it. However your family and friends should be very supportive of whatever decision you make. Although your fiancé will probably be upset you need to do what is best for you.

The first person that you should tell about your decision is obviously your fiancé. Make sure that you take the time to explain things to him or her in the most loving way possible. Try to help them to see things from your point of view, without the conversation turning into some type of argument. You should also understand that they are going to be upset about your decisions so don't expect anything else.

You should also let your fiancé know that you will handle making sure that everything that has already been planned is cancelled and that everyone is contacted. Since you are the one calling things off it is only right that you take care of this. After you inform your fiancé of your plans you should next inform your family and your bridal party. If the invitations have already gone out then it may be a lot easier to mail out notes to everyone letting them know that the wedding has been cancelled and leave it at that. No additional explanation is required on your part. IF you want to explain more to them you can do this over the telephone when they call you, and believe me they will call you.

Takeaways
  • The first person that you should tell about your decision is obviously your fiancé
  • Although your fiancé will probably be upset you need to do what is best for you.
  • Just remember to stick with any decision that you make.
Did You Know?
Since cancelling a wedding can be just as overwhelming as planning one, you may want to ask your close friends and family member to help you with this task
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