Are We Conditioned to Formula Feed Our Infants?

Breastfeeding is gaining in popularity. New moms are being educated on the benefits of breastfeeding and on breastfeeding techniques and the majority are making the smart decision to at least give
breastfeeding a try. Over 70% of mothers breastfeed their newborn infants when they leave the hospital. By the time those infants are six months old, only 36.2% of them are still being breastfed. And, by the time the babies are a year old, only 17.2% of them are breastfed.

These statistics are troubling, especially since the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends exclusive breastfeeding for approximately the first six months and continued breastfeeding support for up to a year and beyond, or for as long as the mother and baby choose to continue.

Why are mothers choosing to not continue breastfeeding? I believe that in our society, we are conditioned to formula feed our babies. From the time we are children, we are bombarded with images of bottle-fed babies. We grow into women and men that think this is normal. Babies and bottles go hand in hand.

Most women that are now of child-bearing age were bottle fed formula when they were babies. They, along with their husbands, grew up in a formula feeding culture. It takes a tremendous amount of courage and strength for a new mother who came from a formula-feeding background to step outside of her comfort zone to breastfeed her baby. And to breastfeed her baby for longer than a few months takes even more courage as many women are not surrounded with a breastfeeding support system.

To ensure that our children grow up to see breastfeeding as the normal, natural thing to do, there are some changes that we should make.

Baby dolls should not be sold with toy bottles.

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Excellent article Lucy!

Posted on 06/19/2007 at 12:06:00 PM

I have found talking to people about breastfeeding is akin to knocking on their door with religious literature. Sad, but true. I encourage all pregnant women I know to do this for their child. My son is almost 2-1/2 and has never needed antibiotics and my daughter was a year old before she needed them (but she was in daycare). I just know I did the right thing nursing them both. I even have a cute pic of my 3 year old dd nursing her dolly!

Posted on 05/24/2007 at 8:05:00 AM

I meant "gathered" but it appears that "g" and "f" are next to each other on the keyboard :)

Posted on 04/08/2007 at 7:04:00 PM

Superdork-My daughter was literally off the charts in height and 95% in weight despite only breastfeeding. That's pretty good considering the charts typically used for comparison are based on statistics fathered from babies who are formula fed. It definitely disproves the myth that breastmilk is not enough.

Posted on 04/08/2007 at 7:04:00 PM

Thanks! My mom eventually came around. One time while she was visiting, she saw my son nursing and how content and sweet he looked. She changed her tune after that and apologized. He was always a big, chunky baby while the only thing he got was breastmilk. So I don't know why they were on my case so much!

Posted on 04/08/2007 at 4:04:00 PM

Superdork - That is a perfect example of the conditioning that our society has to bottle feed. So many people think that breastmilk just isn't enough or that babies HAVE to have bottles. Good for you (and your baby) for continuing to bf despite the lack of support from your family!

Posted on 04/08/2007 at 11:04:00 AM

Yeah, my mom and sister were so bothered by the fact that I never used bottles--they felt this was so wrong for some reason. One time my sister even gave him a bottle of formula while he was in her care for less than an hour! He hardly took any, though. She confessed it to me months later. Nice, huh?

Posted on 04/07/2007 at 10:04:00 PM

Superdork-The first two weeks were difficult for me as well. I almost thought "I guess this isn't going to work out like I wanted it to." I pictured my mother-in-law saying "see, I told you." I'm glad I stuck with it, by two months it was second nature.

Posted on 04/06/2007 at 10:04:00 AM

Superdork, My mom was very supportive even though I was formula fed as a baby. But others were unsupportive, which I could have easily predicted (I must be psychic!) I anticipated the comments I'd receive, which is why I purposely didn't announce my pregnancy until well into the 2nd trimester. And I'd wait just as long again. I'd find it highly annoying spending 9 months listening to negative feedback and criticism. I like to enjoy my pregnancy by myself, call me selfish. I firmly believe breastfeeding was so successful because I didn't allow anyone the "pleasure" of filling my mind with erroneous information.

Posted on 04/06/2007 at 10:04:00 AM

Great article. I admit that I was also enticed with the perceived allure of "easier, simplified feeding" in the beginning with my first child. Nursing was difficult and painful and frustrating. I actually did give up at the hospital, and tried one of those ready-made Enfamil bottles. My son did not like it at all, and then I felt terrible for trying to give it to him. I resolved to stick with the breastfeeding, and after a couple of weeks we got it down. I went on to nurse him for 15 months. I did the same with my daughter and I'm so glad I did. I also did not have the family support--2 sisters who formula fed and a mother who thought nursing babies did not get enough to eat. *sigh*

Posted on 04/06/2007 at 10:04:00 AM

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