Are You Prejudice Against the Chronically Ill?

By WD, published Mar 28, 2007
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When you first read the title of this article, you probably automatically think, "Who me? No, of course not! I would never be prejudiced against someone who is sick!" Once you have finished reading this article, you may find that you answer differently. The hardest part of having a chronic illness is not the actual illness itself, but people's ignorance to it. Whoever coined the phrase "ignorance is bliss" was obviously a healthy person!

As a chronically ill person, I have made it a personal goal to educate society on the myths and prejudices of life as a sick person. Illnesses like Chronic Fatigue Syndrome and Fibromyalgia, which are common and well-known, are two of the most misunderstood diseases. Over the past 20 years the medical community and Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) are mostly to blame for the American public's unawareness of these diseases. Even today, after major research and millions of sick patients, there are still many physicians who believe these illnesses do not exist.

Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (CFS) and Fibromyalgia (FMS) are very complex diseases that have several symptoms each that can range from mild to disabling. I can honestly say that I do understand why it is hard for people to comprehend what we go through daily.

What do you think when I say I never have a day where I feel good? Some days are better than others, but I never feel normal. If you are healthy, my reality is probably impossible for you to fathom. By admitting and saying I am chronically ill does not mean that I define myself as just a chronically ill person. It is a fact, reality and it is something I have to admit and be fully aware of because of the repercussions that I will experience if I do not heed to my body's warnings.

Are You Prejudice Against the Chronically Ill?
Are You Prejudice Against the Chronically Ill?

Are you guilty of stereotyping the chronically ill?

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Takeaways
  • The hardest part of having a chronic illness is not the actual illness itself, but people's ignorance
  • Hopefully by reading this, your eyes will be opened and you will have a new understanding.
  • The CDC has compared the level of disability caused by CFS to multiple sclerosis and COPD.
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packrat1, I don't agree with your point. I don't feel as though I have an attitude. I simply point out the realities of being chronically ill. I don't say that "all" people treat us like this.

Posted on 01/05/2008 at 2:01:41 PM

 
I think your article is very interesting. The points you make are very valid; I am a chronically ill person myself). I would like to point out that although the title of your article intrigued me into reading it, I find that instead of simply using it for that purpose (attention grabbing headline), you continue to address your audience with that attitude. Why do you speak to all of your readers as if they are "the enemy"? As if they are personally committing the prejudices of which you speak? It is one thing to ask people to examine their beliefs and attitudes, quite another to accuse unseen readers of being those type of people. Your manner of addressing your audience is insulting. (And I say this after reading two of your articles.) Perhaps the readers are not the only ones who need to examine their prejudices. Please consider changing your tone toward your readers. I for one will stop reading any more articles with this attitude. And I certainly wouldn't recommend them to anyone.

Posted on 12/24/2007 at 12:12:23 PM

 
By the way, the pictures you use for your articles are awesome! Cheryl (yahoo group)

Posted on 07/10/2007 at 7:07:00 PM

 
Very good article.

Posted on 07/10/2007 at 7:07:00 PM

 
Actually, I never notice who parks in a handicapped parking spot. I would never comment on someone's weight, but they sure comment on mine. I know nothing about the disorders mentioned, but I would never say "you don't look sick". I might ask the person to explain the illness' to me. I have heard ill people complain when someone said: "you look good today", because the person miss understood it to mean "you do not look sick". Some people are rude, but as you pointed out, some people simply are not educated and do not know what to say. It is true, that anyone that has an illness is the only one who can ultimately help them. I have had to force myself to get up out of bed, no one could do it for me. (when suffering depression) I also believe in the mind/body connection. "healthy mind, healthy body; healthy body, healthy mind". The power of prayer in healing has been studied and research shows it does help. The brain is powerful. The subconcious mind takes our word for what we say. If we

Posted on 04/13/2007 at 7:04:00 PM

 
Great article

Posted on 04/13/2007 at 1:04:00 PM

 
It's rare to find enlightened people who understand. This is a great article to help people see things from a different perspective. I'm going to try using that handicap parking comment when I need to if i can ever get out of the house on my own again. Fogggygyrl (sufferer of severe CFS/FMS)

Posted on 04/10/2007 at 10:04:00 PM

 
Very interesting, I think this is something most people don't even think about.

Posted on 04/05/2007 at 9:04:00 AM

 
Wow this hits home so much. I have some health issues and experience all kinds of prejudice from people that are supposedly being "encouraging and helpful." Great article.

Posted on 04/04/2007 at 1:04:00 PM

 
I agree this was a great article.

Posted on 04/02/2007 at 7:04:00 PM

 
I have Lyme disease/CFS and as I've gained some of my health back (a lot considering where I was) people treat me better. It's sad but true.

Posted on 03/29/2007 at 9:03:00 PM

 
You're right, it is "hard for people to comprehend what [you] go through daily". At the same time, it's probably hard for you to comprehend what life is like for the non-chronically ill. Non-chronically ill people often feel similar to how you're describing yourself, just not always. -- I'm probably a bit prejudiced against the chronically ill. Just remember that you're a bit prejudiced too. Try to see what those people are getting at instead of just saying they're wrong. Good perspective article though.

Posted on 03/28/2007 at 9:03:00 PM

 
Very good article.

Posted on 03/28/2007 at 7:03:00 PM

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