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What You Need to Teach Your Kids

The Harsh Reality of Today's World

By Momie Tullottes, published Apr 04, 2007
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In today's world there are many lessons we need to teach our children that we wish we didn't have to. Sadly, if we fail to do so, our children could be at risk in many different aspects.

Our children need to know about drugs, crime, kidnappings, predators, and more. Crimes against children are at an all time high.

With teachers getting caught taking advantage of students, we need to make sure our children are aware of what kind of attention is appropriate from a teacher and what isn't. We need to let our children know that any adult that wishes to have a romantic relationship with a child is wrong, no matter the situation. These people feed on the innocent minds of our children. They know how to word things in a way that will make the child feel like it is okay. You need to understand as a parent that these things can and do happen all the time. If we keep being naive and acting like it won't happen to us, it will grow much worse.

You warn your children about staying away from strangers, but are you warning them about the dangers of people they know and trust? You don't want to scare your child, but you do need to let them know what's inappropriate in a way they can understand you, according to their age level. Let them know that teachers should let them use the restroom alone. Teachers should not be alone with them. If your child is acting withdrawn, ask questions about school. If your child breaks down when a certain teacher is mentioned, something may be wrong. Be aware. Do not ignore or discount anything your child says. Talk to your child about school every day. The more comfortable your child is with talking to you, the easier it will be for the child to come to you should anything serious happen.

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Thanks Angela. :)

Posted on 04/24/2007 at 5:04:00 PM

 
Very well written article on a very important subject. Nice job!

Posted on 04/10/2007 at 12:04:00 PM

 
Thanks so much everyone for all the wonderful comments and feedback. :)

Posted on 04/06/2007 at 5:04:00 PM

 
Great article..I have six kids myself and know all too well about teaching them about everything and anything I possible can to keep them away from the dangers in society these days.. But in all honesty, sometimes it just does not work. I am one of those parents who does not in anyway sugar coat life when it comes to my kids. However, being so upfront with them sometimes tends to backfire. I had to let my oldest daughter (21)learn that smoking weed was not going to be her new occupation, and she had to learn all by herself.I did all that I could, but she had to hit that spot that made her realize that she was in the wrong... Took a few months, but thankfully it did. Great article once again.

Posted on 04/06/2007 at 9:04:00 AM

 
Wonderful work!

Posted on 04/06/2007 at 8:04:00 AM

 
Oops sorry for the dble post!

Posted on 04/06/2007 at 8:04:00 AM

 
This is a great piece. I was expecting it more to be little lessons like wait your turn and whatnot, not safety, for some reason? Maybe because I'm hung up on that after almost being knocked down by kids yesterday as I tried to help my toddler up some stairs, LOL. This was a great piece about teaching kids to protect themselves. Very informative. :)

Posted on 04/06/2007 at 8:04:00 AM

 
This is a great piece. I was expecting it more to be little lessons like wait your turn and whatnot, not safety, for some reason? Maybe because I'm hung up on that after almost being knocked down by kids yesterday as I tried to help my toddler up some stairs, LOL. This was a great piece about teaching kids to protect themselves. Very informative. :)

Posted on 04/06/2007 at 8:04:00 AM

 
there's a lot of empowerment in teaching your children to trust their subtle inner voice. teach them about the wisdom of their intuition, and then respect it deeply yourself. when they voice an instant 'dislike' for someone, even if it's their teacher, an uncle, whatever, don't talk them out of it, instead, value it, and observe. intuition is rarely incorrect, just subtle. it can go a long way when children are self empowered, and know they can rely on a parent to back them up.

Posted on 04/06/2007 at 7:04:00 AM

 
There is some good information in here, although I think that some of the risks are overstated- not that they couldn't happen, just that the actual incidence (like stranger kidnapping, for example) is really quite low. The teacher thing is very tricky- teachers themselves are afraid to be alone with kids even to help them for fear of false accusations. When a teacher had to help a first grader pull up her tights, she asked me to go to the rest room with them as a witness to protect her in case some later made an accusation. It is sad things have come to that. I agree with Lucy that the balance is a delicate one.

Posted on 04/06/2007 at 7:04:00 AM

 
Good article. It's such a delicate balance - how do we get these messages to our children without scaring them?

Posted on 04/06/2007 at 5:04:00 AM

 
Terrific article. It breaks my heart that I need to have these talks with my children - but it's something that can't be avoided. Great info.

Posted on 04/06/2007 at 4:04:00 AM

 
Thanks Cristina. :)

Posted on 04/05/2007 at 8:04:00 AM

 
Great article!

Posted on 04/05/2007 at 7:04:00 AM

 
Thanks Kristina. I thought someone needed to get the word out.

Posted on 04/04/2007 at 1:04:00 PM

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