Heart or Mind

Making Choices Upon Feelings of Our Heart or Mind

By Michelle WithaM, published Feb 01, 2006
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We often fall into the trap of making decisions based upon on the feelings within our heart instead of the mind with logic. Women often make decisions based upon the feelings within their heart sometimes. We as women tend to get so wrapped up in their feelings regarding a special individual in our life or whichever else in our life that we often forget to use our mind instead when making some important decisions. Yes it is something that we all make the mistake of doing from time to time. Individuals aren't perfect all the time. Individual make mistakes, but the important thing is to learn to stop making the same judgment errors over and over again.

The emotional price that women or men pay isn't usually worth it at all. The tears we cry due to our bad judgment at times in regards to love or whichever else isn't worth it. How many times have we been damaged somehow when we made a decision based upon our feelings in our heart instead of our mind? Many times. Why do we keep on doing it? Because we often don't realize what we are doing. We sometimes don't realize when we are thinking with our mind or heart when making a decision. The mind is the best method to use when making an important decision.

Now, I know that some women say that making most important decision based upon on the mind will sometimes result in regret cause of not following the feelings of the heart. It isn't the smartest thing to make decisions based upon the feelings of the heart due to because the heart is based upon emotion and the mind is logic thinking. The heart is emotion and emotions can cause our feelings to change at any given time which can result in poor decisions if we don't use our mind to make decisions with the use of logic.

Takeaways
  • Don't make decisions based upon emotions in heart.
  • Use logic in your mind to make smart decisions.
  • Don't make the same errors over and over again.
Did You Know?
Romance usually makes us have cloudy judgment in making decisions.
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Good points Michelle, I follow this rule... when its about others its my heart and when its about me, its my mind...believe me I have few regrets thank God :-) the few that I have however are big ones...and those were made with my heart about me LOL !

Posted on 05/25/2008 at 11:05:11 AM

 
Spider Lady say you make a good point. My grandmother would say that the lttle head have no conscience. You know how to a tell when a man is lying? His lips are moving....LOL Spider Lady say you a move to "show me state." Watch the behavior and forget the words... She say you take a break from the men and stop auditoning for parts in the play that are not open for casting... Spider have many blessing for you....

Posted on 11/24/2007 at 10:11:00 PM

 
Thankz for posting thiz into interner it helpz me a lot in my life!!!

Posted on 08/06/2007 at 7:08:00 AM

 
This one is good. It's help me a lot. Thank you.

Posted on 07/30/2006 at 9:07:00 PM

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