Have Baby Boomers Prepared Generation Y to Act Responsibly?

Does Generation Y Have the Ambition to Take Fix What Their Parents Broke?

By Sundance McGee, published Apr 06, 2007
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I am among the last of the Baby Boomers. According to some statisticians, The Baby Boomers are those who were born between 1946 and 1964 -- the period of time between the end of World War II and the beginning of Viet Nam. As I approach middle age I wonder what happened to Generation Y, the generation that was spawned by mine.

Mine was the generation of rebellion, experimentation and discovery. We protested policy, danced to rock and roll and became the desired target of advertisers because we had money and loved to spend it.

We saw heroes killed, presidents fall, and Americans put on trial. We promoted free love, experimented with drugs and broke with traditions. We Baby Boomers were the first generation to watch television, let our hair grow and question authority. We watched men walk on the moon and saw their brothers and sisters explode upon take-off from Earth as well as on their return.

In the novel "Moondust" by Andrew Smith, it is written that "Baby Boomers have the unique distinction of pissing off both their parents' and their children's generations." I agree that this would have been a possibility if we would have been parents to our children instead of their friends. Most of us simply pissed off, or at least disappointed, the generation of our parents. At the same time we've simply failed the generation of our offspring.

Yes, we wanted our children to have it better than we did when we were growing up. In our attempts to give them the things we never had, we gave them instead an overwhelming feeling of entitlement. We protected them from adversity and criticism and as a result, they can not deal with either. We made excuses for their lapses in judgment and failure to follow the rules. Because of that, our children don't know the importance of accepting responsibility or what constitutes character. When they got in trouble at school, the Baby Boomer parents marched right into the school and chastised principals and teachers for having the nerve to accuse or discipline our children. This created children that exhibit no respect for others.

Have Baby Boomers Prepared Generation Y to Act Responsibly?

Barney and Bill Gates discuss the philosophical differences between Baby Boomers and Generation X.

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Takeaways
  • Baby Boomers can piss off both their parents' and their children's generations.
  • Generation Y would quickly remind us that charges will be filed.
  • We were the last generation to know the taste of a bar of soap
Did You Know?
There are approximately 76 million Baby Boomers in America.
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we as the boomer generation,have given our children the values of greed.what has the boomer generation acomplished or created as a legacy we watched and read of the acomplishments of the greatest generation as they like to term themselves(the last of the colonial generation) but what have we done I look out my window at all the cars on the street and wonder in the looming energy and enviromental crisis and we as a generation are not doing anything but doing things the same old greedy way.air travel for our granchildren will be a thing of only the richest,no north american commuter rail system to travel on a road system that no one will be able to afford long distance travel but still the question what has the boomer generation (greedo generation) done of lasting glory probably in the lore of history the most memorable single act of my generation will be the looting of the great library of Baghdad(the The looting of Baghdad's museum and library) the savior of the dark ages

Posted on 06/30/2008 at 7:06:48 AM

 
There are distinctions between the babyboomers and their progeny that are far larger than societal sensibilites. I will draw 3 major ones as food for thought. 1) Demographics. baby boomers will consume over 40% of the entire federal budget as they retire. Due to their large population, they also constitute the largest voting block and will remain the focal power in political and economic policy for the next two decades due to extended lifespans, early retirement and large population. 2) Gen Y is the first generation in US history that is poorer than their parents. This is not work ethic - in fact many more Gen Y people have to have dual incomes than Babyboomers did. The real issue is that Gen Y thinks there is as much wealth available to them as their parents, it simply isnt the case. Look at household debt (and other stats) and behold the truth. 3) Gen Y has no rallying call. Earlier generations had a unifying experience that really brought them together. The war on

Posted on 10/03/2007 at 1:10:00 PM

 
Michy--you and I are in the same boat..I call us the "lost generation".

Posted on 04/25/2007 at 5:04:00 PM

 
Very interesting - I'm slightly too young to fit into the Baby Boomers (My mother was born in 46 though), and I'm way too old to be a Gen Y - I think they called me a Gen Xer, but if I remember correctly, my age was one year short of that too. I have no generation into which I fit! I feel so left out now.

Posted on 04/25/2007 at 5:04:00 PM

 
The funniest part, to me, is this: Justin, one day your kids are going to accuse you of having left a mess--just as the stoners did to their parents in the 70s, the hippies did in the 60s, the beat generation did in the 50s, the flappers and sheiks did in the 20s. The only generations who didn't bitch about the older generation were the ones who lived in the hard times; the world wars and the great depression. Those events pretty much cover the decades missing from the above list. What do all of these groups have in common? They were all under 30, had no kids or major responsibilities, and hadn't been to the school of real life yet. It's all an ongoing circle, Justin. Enjoy this, your time to bitch. Soon will come the time to hear your kids bitch. Very good article, Sundance.

Posted on 04/23/2007 at 3:04:00 PM

 
Well even though I am technically a GEN Y my morals and upbringing make me more of a boomer. My kids being a GEN Z world scares the hell out of me...

Posted on 04/22/2007 at 1:04:00 AM

 
I apologize for all the errors in my last comment. I was in too much of a hurry.

Posted on 04/18/2007 at 5:04:00 PM

 
Jean: Very articulately stated. Thank you. Mr. Justice: I have no children so I can hardly accept responsibility for screwing them up.

Posted on 04/18/2007 at 1:04:00 PM

 
Justin, did you and I read the same article here? Right from the title and subtitle line, the author of this piece is clearly critizing the Babby Boomers for the way their children turned out. We can't work towards the "collective good" without first identifying what is wrong and how it got that way. The biggest problem with a discussion like this is that generalizations don't work for EVERYONE. Not everyone is the 'Greatest Generation' was great---many of us grandparents to prove that. Not all Baby Boomers grew up doing illegal drugs and not all Generation Y's grew up with permissive parents. But one thing we ALL have in common is that we have to overcome the mistakes that parents made when they were raising us and that will never change. Each generation has a responsibility to take the world they inherited and make it better and, so far, that is exactly what has happened since the beginning of man's place on here.

Posted on 04/18/2007 at 10:04:00 AM

 
I am not angry, but I will always speak out against blatant hypocrisy when I hear it. Boomers spawn a generation (two, if you count the second marriage) and then criticize them because you see your own flaws in us. Don't get defensive, if I disagree. After all, from whom do the children learn? You speak of transference, maybe you who should look inside and accept some of the responsibility. I do have a college degree, I am gainfully employed, and I have served this country in two wars. In each case, the reason for going to war was not up to me, that was for our elected leaders, who, might I add, are mostly from the boomer generation, to decide. My sense of entitlement is simply this, I feel I am entitled to live a country where we stop looking to cleanse ourselves of our moral responsibilities, like you do in your article, and work toward a collective good for all generations to come.

Posted on 04/17/2007 at 9:04:00 PM

 
Justin, I don't know where you come up with the idea that the Baby Boomers are all about "consumption, arrogance and self-centeredness." The way I remember it---and I was there to see it firsthand---we were about fighting for Worker's Rights, Civil Rights, Women's Rights and host of other causes that advanced mankind. Where is the arrogance and self-centeredness in those causes? Just about everyone I know has had a 'passion project' for the betterment of society that they've worked tirelessly for. Each generation has its own issues on the table. The issues that confront your generation are important, yes, but no more important than what the Baby Boomers accomplished when they were up at the bat. As for not caring about the invironment---my checkbook and life style say differently.

Posted on 04/17/2007 at 7:04:00 PM

 
wide clean-up day, perhaps :)

Posted on 04/17/2007 at 4:04:00 PM

 
You know, it's like with anything else there, folks - you known or have witnessed something (at least, I did)that had a commonology (go with me here)with the things stated in this article. Then someone brings up other issues that also have a common thread, so to speak, with other things you've found to be true. hell, there's a lot of your generation, go figure. I had a parent affected by Vietnam in a very drastic way. He was and will never be the same. I truly have never heard my mother say a curse word, and I am 36. So goes the ways of people. But left us with a mess? Oh, give me a freakin' break!! What, with their Tupperware? C'mon! My generation is making some of the biggest messes there are, and maybe you don't see it as much in your neck of the woods because it's probably highly illegal messes, well hidden. Okay, that's a bit extreme. My point is, they didn't mess anything up for me. And if you really want to prove something, the highways are full of litter... organize a community

Posted on 04/17/2007 at 4:04:00 PM

 
Good article, but I do not agree with you 100%. I am a member of Generation Y and I have no sense of entitlement about anything. I have a strong work ethic and have always paid for the things I want and need. Each generation had their moment in history. The baby boomers were free spirits and patriotic and all about civil rights. Those things helped shape your generation. Generation Y has had several things (Sept. 11 and Iraq) going on which I believe have helped us learn to be selfless and not take things for granted. To say baby boomers did not prepare generation Y to be responsible is not a valid claim. Very thought provoking article.

Posted on 04/17/2007 at 2:04:00 PM

 
I'm the daughter, daughter-in-law, niece twice over, and wife of men and women who fought (and died) for this country. I began working myself at the age of nine to help support my family and have worked my entire life; generally a minimum of 10 to 12 hour days. True, I didn't serve myself because of a heart condition (and yes I CAN provide proof of that), but I volunteered in hospitals as a nurse's aide. I NEVER danced anywhere, smoked or swallowed anything illegal - - EVER. I was not a flower child or a proponent of free love as you suggested all Baby Boomers were. In fact, I have contributed a great deal to my community in both business (as a counselor helping start new businesses) and in education (developing mentorships and internships for students); all of which I accomplished without the benefit of a degree because I couldn't afford one. I'm a member of the lower middle-class that sits just above the poverty level and still manages to give as much as I can to charities and find w

Posted on 04/17/2007 at 12:04:00 PM

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