Relationship Tips: What Women Really Want in a Man

By Bailey Landon, published Apr 04, 2007
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There is a wonderful and adorable creation known as Man. There's even a 50/50 chance that you are one of these men. Down through the ages, Man has sought to know more about Woman, how she thinks, what makes her tick, what she wants, and how to satisfy her. While there has been some success among the male persuasion in identifying what females want, there are still a significant amount of men who are at a total loss on just what a woman wants.

While these relationship tips cannot possibly speak for all of the female persuasion, they might possibly speak for at least 99.99% of all womankind, or perhaps one.

Most women, if given a choice, would much prefer hugs and snuggling over making love. This isn't to say we don't enjoy sex or want it, but most of us actually prefer the romance that comes with cuddling on the sofa and watching a nice movie with our man. We love it when we can give hugs and kisses and it just be because we want to hug and kiss our man, and not necessarily be doing it because we want sex. The sex act is great, but it's second fiddle when it comes to what we really want, which is just spending quality time with you. And while admittedly we don't generally care much for the manly action movies, we watch them with you because we love to see how excited they make you. The same goes for a football game.

Women love it when her man thinks of her in ways that don't involve hopping into bed or spending money on material things. Women like the idea that their man is thinking of them. Little notes left for us, an email to say hi, or a message left on the answering machine are sweet and thoughtful ways to show you care while telling your woman you're thinking about her. Again, this isn't to say we don't enjoy making love to you, this just shows us that you see more to us than a body.

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You made some good points,I like little notes and chocolate.However I would much rather have hugs and kisses and sex lol.

Posted on 04/09/2007 at 7:04:00 PM

 
Funny, while I read this all I could see was aprons, douche bags, tribes of little kids, all cute, bare feet and kitchens, lonely women who drink too much and a guy trapped in a little secret world of porno and vaseline... Dear, dear Bailey, all that hugging and togetherness is going to happen, but it is a prelude. To not have the subsequent sexual encounter would be like masking off the room and not painting it... sort of a neat write, but I just can't get the words out of my head, "Ward, you were a little hard on the beaver last night.", and then mental images of Wally and Beaver running around with Eddy Hascall. That was a fake world. Sex is good, and if you spend a little time at it, sex is GREAT!!

Posted on 04/06/2007 at 12:04:00 PM

 
Lol... well this is true somewhat. First of all I LOVE football. Now to get my hubby into it could be doable. I love to snuggle, so that is good. Now the t-bowl lid has always gone down. The entire thing. He has always been good about that. Cute n funny article :)

Posted on 04/04/2007 at 10:04:00 PM

 
LOL kirsten... now that made me laugh!! ty ty

Posted on 04/04/2007 at 10:04:00 PM

 
I get the points of your article. The problem with writing an article like this is ALL women will not identify with it. I agree with some and completely disagree with others. No biggie. We're all different, right? Now we just know that you prefer your love to be shown in one way and Heather James likes wild monkeys. lol. ;-)

Posted on 04/04/2007 at 10:04:00 PM

 
Thanks Jennifer LOL!

Posted on 04/04/2007 at 9:04:00 PM

 
Weeeeelllllll, I agree...to a point....buying me stuff is nice, too :) Truly, I love spending time with my husband...I have learned, too, that if I treat him like a king, he will treat me like a queen. I do love a healthy sex life, though. ;) I understand what you are saying. Good article!

Posted on 04/04/2007 at 9:04:00 PM

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