Joining the Military and Military Recruitment from a Parent's Point of View

A young man in high school who chooses to sign up for military service does not make that decision lightly. It might seem that way to the parents, and indeed the teen, in the optimism of youth, does not dwell on the issues of war and death. Instead the youngster recognizes that he needs the discipline of the military. He knows he will ultimately reap the key benefit of joining the military. Basically it is time to grow up, mature, see the world, meet a variety of people, and gain skills that are useful for the young man's future. Military recruitment in high school does put a bit of the hard sell on impressionable youth. However, until the kid signs on the dotted line, fortunately he is free to explore all options.

This article is meant to help those parents who are arguing, debating, or supporting (with reservations) a child facing his high school graduation choice. I, as a parent, am writing based on experiences with young men. In my opinion, a young lady who chooses the military is probably knowledgeable about her choice, and also faces a far deeper challenge than I address in this article.

So, as a parent, your little boy has become an insufferable teen. He is smart and yet not working to his potential. He exhibits lousy study skills and a lack of educational motivation. You and he have been aiming towards college. Yet, you recognize that your hard earned dollars will be wasted on his education at this juncture. He is restless and ready to leave the nest, but lacks the necessary skills to do much more than deliver pizzas. Deep down, he knows he is not ready to be on his own, but he is not sure what to do. He needs time. This is not a failing on your part or his. He needs a boost to his motivation, his self-esteem - a sense of purpose.