The 4 Reasons Why People Lie

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Why Do People Lie?

Whether you're a judge, a caring wife, or a concerned parent, lying is one of the most common things done by individuals in society. Lying does not only take place within families, but between governments; businesses to customers; and others. Even though lying is generally thought of as a bad thing,
can it be a good thing? Whatever the case, where does lying come from and why do we do it? In this article, the main reasons on why people lie are going to be revealed.

As a Joke

Many times individuals lie to tell jokes. Does that make it a good thing? Maybe not, but I guess it will depend on the person. If it is perhaps Halloween, and a group of kids are planning a scare, one of them might lie to get an individual trapped into their prank. Even in simple sarcastic conversations one may tell a lie, but was only being sarcastic with actually no intention of harming or deceiving the person. In either case, this form of lying, as a joke, is one of the reasons why people lie.

To Escape Punishment

Another reason why people lie is to escape punishment. If a child knows that he's done something wrong and is afraid he is going to get punished for it, the natural reaction of a human is to lie to prevent it. However, many times that just makes it worse, and so in some cases people know to tell the truth up front to avoid getting caught in a lie later. On the other hand, those that do tell a lie are simply doing so as a risk to avoid punishment.

Deceptive Gain

This is form of lying is probably the most harmful. In many cases, this form of lying is no different than taking another's belongings or life, but many still seem to do it regardless of the outcomes. Why do people do it? Well, that question can be debated. Many couples do this to cheat on their spouse. Many thieves do this to steal others' belongs. Many individuals do this to control the minds of people to get them to do what they want to do. Whatever the reason of this deceptive form of lying, most people do it as a form of deceptive gain.

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The truth of the matter is that with honesty must come tact. People must be honest, but being honest in a tactless way will cause much pain and misery.

Posted on 12/14/2008 at 10:12:30 AM

i know my mom is making me write an essay on why i lie too... it is so not fair. i hate it but i really desearve it after all i put her through... it still suxs );

Posted on 11/22/2008 at 6:11:03 PM

I agree that the deceptive lyer is the worst kind because they will never be trusted.

Posted on 10/23/2008 at 10:10:44 AM

The is something good about lying or no one would ever lie.

Posted on 10/15/2008 at 6:10:48 AM

i also got in trouble have to rite an essa

Posted on 09/15/2008 at 7:09:37 PM

i'm learning now that lying is not the way. i have lied so much to my parents and it always gets me into trouble. now my mom is making me right an essay about, why people lie why i lie and what I am going to do to stop lying. funnn. );

Posted on 08/06/2008 at 9:08:49 PM

Lying is dangerous no matter how perfectly told. It is destructive and capable of seperating and entity

Posted on 07/15/2008 at 7:07:40 AM

well honestly i do lie alot to my parents and to my friends (sadly) but its not JUST those reasons its cause the truth isnt good enough so i lie to make the story better.....or in my parents case so i wont get caught in deep shiittt.

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Posted on 05/17/2008 at 1:05:36 PM

It is wrong for people to lie no matter for what reason most people lie because they are afraid of getting into trouble... but it is better to tell the truth so a person wont have to live with the guilt of lying or the fear of getting caught.

Posted on 05/02/2008 at 10:05:42 AM

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