How to Tell If the Man Your Dating is a "Perfectionist"

Some Signs He May Be "Too Perfect"

There are some very definite signs when a man is a 'Perfectionist" You may want to know if he is, before you go any further with this type of man. "Perfectionistic" men can be very difficult people just to be around, no less dating, or getting serious with. You may want to know what your dealing with. To some, the signs may be obvious, to others they have no clue what to look for. I grew up with a "Perfectionist" namely my Dad, and have dated them as well. I even married one. I will never, ever date one again. And forget about marriage to one. Life is too short. So, if you really want to know what to look for, cause you don't want one either, keep on reading.

The problem with most 'Perfectionists", is that they not only expect perfection of themselves, but also of you. In my opinion this is a man to avoid. Several years ago when I met my little "Perfectionist", my second husband, we'll call him Bill (name changed), I had the opportunity the first time I went to his apartment, to go into his medicine cabinet. I didn't think anything of at the time, I wish I had. Everything was lined up perfectly. There was, no dirt, no gunk on the bottles, it was like in a model home. Like I said I didn't think anything of it. I should have. Honestly how many people have perfect medicine cabinets? Exactly, not too many. Mind you his apartment was EXTREMELY clean as well. So, there's your first sign. Take a look in his medicine cabinet, and look around his apartment. If things are starting to look alphabetized, be careful Hopefully, for your sake, it's at least a little messy. Because I guarantee you, if it's not, he will always expect you to be "TIDY" too. If you marry this one, he'll be Mr. Clean, and expect you to be Mrs. Clean, ALWAYS!