Things to Do When You Find Out You Are Pregnant

Jeanne Marie Kerns
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Remember that feeling. That feeling of thinking your pregnant, but really not knowing. You run as fast as you can either to the doctor, or straight to the drug store and pick up a pregnancy test. Then when you finally get the results it sinks in, and you realize the things you have to do to plan for
the new arrival. Well the first thing to remember is that you have seven or eight months to do this. There is no rushing needed. Just sit back and relax the first couple of months. You will have plenty of time to run around and by baby stuff..You will even have more time if you take some advice from someone who has done this six times, soon to be seven.

Ready. All righty then..

The first and the most important thing to do is to get yourself a doctor. If you do not have insurance, and you would be surprised at how many people do not. Go to your local clinic and they will be glad to guide you through your pregnancy. There is no excuse not to go to the doctor during your pregnancy. There are plenty of resources out there now a days, so excuses just don't cut it.

The next most important thing, and you have to do this. If you are a drinker, smoker, or a drug user, STOP IMMEDIATELY. And let me tell you something. I do not want to hear the excuse that you can't. You can, and you need to. It is that simple. I myself have been a smoker for 15 years, but every time I was pregnant. I quit as soon as I knew, as hard as it may be to do this, I still did it. After all, you are taking your child's health in your hands. And it is not the right choice if you choose to keep doing any of those things mentioned. Please just stop doing it. It is so much healthier for you and your unborn child.

 
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Instead of using condom, or other contraceptives, why not abstain until you are ready to be a responsible parent. Men respect women who has control than those who don't.

Posted on 09/09/2008 at 2:09:20 PM

I got pregnant at the age of 17 and my Father said he was going to kick me out of the house if I didnt abort my own child. At that age I had nowhere else to go so I listened to him and still to this day I regret it. Now I am 21 and I just found out last week that I am pregnant again with the same guy as the first time so we are both really excited. My mom is very exciited but my dad is having a hard time dealing with it again but hes just going to have to because I am old enough to make my own desicions now. I love the page its very helpful.

Posted on 08/20/2008 at 9:08:18 AM

I would advise you young girls to wait on becoming a mother. Be a teenager and enjoy your teenager year, there's no need to grow up so fast so be careful and use condom, no matter what! Hold off on getting pregnant, and getting diseases etc. But, if you are already pregnant. The best you could do is to be a good mother and shower the baby with love and attention regardless of what other people think!! Be positive and set a good example for your baby.

Posted on 08/19/2008 at 10:08:55 PM

GIRL, IT'S YOUR LIFE! NOT YOUR MOMS! IF YOU DO EVERYTHING TO MAKE HER HAPPY, YOU WILL REGRET IT~ KEEP THE BABY AND BE A GREAT MOTHER, SHOWER THE BABY WITH ATTENTION AND LOVE NO MATTER WHAT AND ALWAYS BE THERE FOR THE BABY.

Posted on 08/19/2008 at 10:08:05 PM

i find out im pregnant a week ago. my mom said she would support me 100 percent watever i choose 2 do. as soon as i said i might keep it, shes told me not 2 go round her house anymore. im nearly 12 weeks gone and havnt a clue wat to do, im 19 nd will be 20 wen i have the baby. iv been with my bf 3 yrs. were currently looking for a house now, i do want a baby and i am scared, ov course but is it worth loosing my own mom over? im not sure how she will fell once the baby is born but il just have 2 wait and see.

Posted on 06/04/2008 at 7:06:37 AM

hey i have 8 days till my 18th bday and i found out i was pregnant ydday wit my second kid... yea i know people are thinking eww what a hoe bt im really not its by the same guy and i love him to death bt i have been taking care of my daughter for about 6 months now by myself and its not easy.. of course im goin to keep my baby im pregnant with now even know my baby daddy dont want it bt i could care less what he thinks. its hard taking care of a baby by yourself bt im doing it i have my own car my own place and i have 2 jobs so i m not n o worthless mom.. this is mainly for the little girls that think having a baby is cool well its not and think twice before u think about having a baby..

Posted on 05/27/2008 at 9:05:16 AM

I'm 17 right now, my 18th birthday is in three days. I am a junior in high school and today, I found out that I am pregnant. I just told my mom and she just kept asking me, what are you going to do? I couldn't answer her, I just started crying and told her that I would talk to her later because the horrible truth is that I dont have a clue what I am going to do about this baby. I cant kill it, I could never do that. I love the father to death. We have been together for 9 months and we live together. I need some advice...what do I do?

Posted on 04/20/2008 at 11:04:28 AM

Hiii i was on my vacation (anniversary, and my birthday) with my husband and found out i was pregnant i was shocked and happpyy everything i wanted happend... amazing

Posted on 03/19/2008 at 8:03:05 PM

When i found out was pregnant my heart overjoyed because i was thinking planning for a baby for nearly future but the funny part of it was me attending to Burger king and KFC I thought was mad i had realief reading these comments about other women who did the same lol!

Posted on 03/18/2008 at 2:03:45 PM

im 20 and this is my first baby im only 4 weeks but im real scared

Posted on 01/05/2008 at 7:01:37 AM

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