How to Get the Most Out of Being a Military Spouse

The Truth from a Retired Military Wife

By Rebecca Livermore, published Apr 13, 2007
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For some strange reason, bad news is often embraced, even if it isn't entirely true. Such is the case with the so-called plight of military personnel and their families. To be sure, sacrifices are made both by active duty military and their families, but there are also great benefits military family members experience that civilian counterparts can only dream about.

Here are some ways to make the most out of the time your spouse serves in the military.

1. Embrace adventure. One of the hardest aspects of military life is a sense of not being in control. After all, someone else decides where you will be stationed, the hours your spouse will work, and even in many cases, which specific house or apartment you will live in. This can lead to a sense of despair or a sense of excitement. It's all a matter of perspective. For instance, if moving someplace you're not excited about, get a travel book on the area and read up on the fun and interesting things you can do. When you move into a particular housing unit, rather than feel a sense of being stuck, have a sense of purpose for being in that particular place at that particular time. Perhaps there are people in the same housing area who need a friend or someone to encourage them. Choose to be that person.

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Takeaways
  • Have a Spirit of Adventure
  • Take Advantage of Freebies and Programs
  • Know How to Complain Graciously and Effectively
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Really nice article- thanks for sharing!

Posted on 05/23/2007 at 7:05:00 PM

 
Great tips, I really enjoyed this!

Posted on 04/25/2007 at 9:04:00 AM

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