Ten Reasons Why Homeschooling May Not Be the Best Choice for You or Your Kids

Is it Right for Your Family?

By Lima, published Apr 12, 2007
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Homeschooling is a trend that has gathered many adherents over the last few decades. As public schools appear to decline in quality and private schools continue to rise in cost, many parents have made up their minds that they can take the responsibility for teaching their own children through a home-school program. As it grows in participants, homeschooling has in many ways improved in the quality of its programs and the variety of its offerings. Still careful observation of the homeschooling phenomenon is important before signing on. Here are are ten reasons why homeschooling might not be exactly right for your family . The first five observations have to do with parents, the second five with the children.

1. What's your personal stress? One way to determine if homeschooling is right for your family is to take a look at how it 's demands matche up with the parent who will be doing the major portion of the home-school instruction. One question you might ask yourself is ," Do I already have more than enough stress in my life?"

While it is true that taking on homeschooling can reduce certain kinds of stress, like the daily drop off and pick up of students, it's inaccurate to think that homeschooling will not produce additional , if different, stress of its own. Teaching kids at home might mean giving up that part time job and the money that goes with it. It could also mean that the free time you once had to use for all your other errands and chores has just vanished in thin air. Before you decide to homeschool it's really important for your mental health and the well being of the whole family to determine how the change in schooling will affect the level of stress on the people in your household.

Takeaways
  • When deciding to homeschool or not, think about the amount of stress it may create.
  • Will homeschooling give your child all the educational choices he or she needs.?
  • How well will you and your child adapt to changed roles and relationships?
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Wow... I suggest alot more research about homeschooling from a less biased place.

Posted on 01/12/2008 at 10:01:18 AM

 
We homeschool and yes there is some amount of stress involved, but there's stress involved in anything worth doing. We have good days and bad days. I'm my kids teacher even if we weren't homeschooling. It's my job as a parent to teach them how to dress themselves, how to say "thank you", how to love others, how to follow their passions in life... why shouldn't I also be the one to teach them how to read and write? One of the biggest thrills for me as a mom has been teaching my son how to read. It's so amazing. He's in first grade and is reading at what I'm guessing is a second grade level. I doubt very seriously he would be doing this in a public school where the student to teacher ratio is something like 20 to 1. It's a very personal choice and not for everyone, but for those of us who decide to homeschool, it's a learning experience with a lot of hurdles and ohhhhh so very worth it! I remember when I was in public school as a kid. I was always stressed out, my parents

Posted on 12/15/2007 at 9:12:31 AM

 
On the socialization issue...does anyone know what the definition of "socialize" is??? [ trans. ] make (someone) behave in a way that is acceptable to their society. EVERYTHING seems to be acceptable to our society these days. I want my children to be independant thinkers - not a number in a herd being pushed through the system.

Posted on 04/27/2007 at 8:04:00 AM

 
I agree with this article..it is important for your child to have the social interaction that is obtained through going out into the world. I feel that parents and children can become easily frustrated with each other, making the experience a negative one. Though not all teachers are excellent, there are many who live and breath to teach your children to the best of their ability. On the other hand, home schooled children are not exposed to the violence that can come from going to a public school. But, does this make our children naive? You can also censor the informationt that you present to your children in a home setting. It's a very difficult decision to make. But, public schools are not the enemy, it's the few people that have given them a bad name. Note: After reading this article I found several typos. If you are going to post an article on the internet...it's pretty easy to run a quick spell check.

Posted on 04/14/2007 at 10:04:00 AM

 
I couldn't even read the whole article. We homeschool our six children they are all active in a local Dojo taking several different forms of marshal arts. Is it stressful? Sure its not easy coming up with 6 diffrent lesson plans for 6 diffrent children. Sure they test you and your will aagainst their own and it can be a struggle but school has more draw backs than just having to pick them up and drop them off. There are the phone calls from teachers, the over abundance of homework. My oldest was bringing home 6 hours of homework a night and all of it was just a repeat of what they had been learning for the last 5 years. I was teaching her everything she needed to know anyway. Why put up with the social problems of a socially disfunctional system with a 50 percent drop out rate and only 15 percent of their graduating students being able to read above an 8th grade level? My 14 year olds current history and language classes come from books my sister used in college. Is homesc

Posted on 04/13/2007 at 10:04:00 PM

 
Ok. This has to be one of the WORST thought out articles I've read in a long time. Take reason # 3. "How well do you get along with your children"? Now you might think that the author is going to say "If you don't get along well with your children then you shouldn't homeschool" right? WRONG! He makes the dubious claim that if you spend MORE time with your children by homeschooling then somehow you will "destroy what you treasure most in this equation , your relationship with your children." What nonsense! Spending time with your children STRENGTHENS your relationship with them! This article is an obvious propaganda piece for the corrupt educational establishment.

Posted on 04/13/2007 at 2:04:00 PM

 
Jeez, this is a pretty nasty column..."You might not be ready to homeschool if..." I challenge the writers to come up with just one really positive reason TO home school your children without immediately turning it into a negative as they have done so far. I was homeschooled until 5th Grade along with my little brother who entered public school in 3rd Grade. Was it perfect? No. Did I have some problems socializing for a couple of years once I was in The System? Yes. Were my brother and I smarter than most of our classmates when we got to public school? Not to toot our own horn, but yes.

Posted on 04/13/2007 at 1:04:00 PM

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