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Growing Up Bipolar and Raising Your Bipolar Child

My Oldest Child was Diagnosed with Bipolar and ADHD at the Age of 4

By uniquenorthern, published Apr 16, 2007
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Most of the time when people hear the word Bipolar Disorder they immediately think of a border line, or maybe even not so borderline crazy person. They do not think of a normal acting person, and they most certainly are not think of a child. It is true that most of the people in the United States that are diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder every year are adults over 25 years of age. But, now due to the advances in medical technology diagnosis is coming at a much earlier age.

I am one of those people that could not be happier that these medical advances finally took place. I myself was diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder and ADHD, after my son was diagnosed, mind you. I had been in and out of psychiatrists and counselors officers for minor offenses most of my teenage life. I was constantly angry and confused about life, and wanting to know what was always wrong with me. I wish I had found that one person that would have had the guts to make the diagnosis way back when, when it maybe would have did me the most good, then to have had to wait for 10 or so more long years to get it.

Let me give you a little insight into how I came to bring my son into the specialist for an evaluation in the first place. I actually worked at this Pediatricians office full time as a receptionist at the time. I later worked my way through the ranks into ICD-9 coding, but this is another story. Dr. Cook, as I will hereby call her, is a highly specialized Pediatrician that works with very specialized diseases and disorders that most doctors no nothing about. She is the doctor that most other doctors are referring you to when they have run out of tests and are standing there scratching their heads.

Growing Up Bipolar and Raising Your Bipolar Child

my oldest

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Did You Know?
Childhood on-set bipolar disorder is potentially curable, unlike adult onset bipolar disorder which is not
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I too am glad that this has been posted. My husband was diagnosed bipolar 2 years ago, my 4 year old is showing signs of ADHD or possible bipolar since they are so similiar. My son is constantly defiant, and angry, he does fine in preschool but it is only twice a week for 2 hours each time. I don't want my child to get worse but I keep getting told to wait until he gets older. I feel somthing isn't right, and with my family history of depression & my husband being bipolar, I feel it is important to get diagnosed early. I think I will just start with a child psyciatrist and then if it is "normal childhood behavior" then I will feel better and that will be that. I feel in my heart though his behavior is out of control. I don't even take him into a store because of the huge angry fit he has. He wears me out! and people look disgusted with me, but I don't want to give in to his bad behavior. My husband and I constantly do our best to help him with managing his behavior, but if ther

Posted on 03/25/2008 at 6:03:51 PM

 
It's a sad, yet exhilarating day when you finally figure out where the missing piece of the puzzle lies. My son is 5 and in Kindergarten, and he's been labeled a troublemaker at school... the principal even has, on numerous occasions, referred to my boy as a "liability". Worst of all, they'd kept his behaviors a secret from me until I finally asked at parent-teacher conferences in October. By that time, my boy was already at a disciplinary level 3 and was in danger of being expelled! My ex-husband and I got our boy into a psychologist and he was just recently diagnosed with ADHD and PTSD. We're working with the special education unit now and things are looking up. I always felt like I was the worst parent in the world... like I didn't do something... I didn't hold my boy enough... i didn't spend enough time cuddling him or reading to him or I was too lenient or whatever... I was filled with self-doubt.. even self-hatred. Thank you for putting your story out there. We're not alone!

Posted on 02/03/2008 at 3:02:25 PM

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