Cheating can ruin a marriage
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Cheaters and Abusers, Beware!
The statistics are not encouraging.In a poll taken not long ago, the results said that 22% of married men have cheated at least once over the course of their marriage and that 70% of married women had no clue that their spouses were unfaithful. The internet may have even exacerbated the problem, in some ways, because now straying hubbies and/or boyfriends don't have to restrict themselves to just going to bars or clubs to meet women, but can hook up with them in chat rooms. Some "cyber" relationships can move from online communication to face-to-face sexual encounters.
The discovery of infidelity in a marriage can leave the cheated-on wife feeling extremely betrayed, angry and disillusioned. Understandably, these women feel a need to vent their rage, but don't know where or how to do this.
There is now a website that offers them the opportunity to express themselves and even gives them the chance to expose cheaters and abusers. That website is CheaterNews.com. I had touched on this site briefly in my earlier article, Women, Love and Revenge: Is Getting Back the Answer? , but wanted to find out more information on what this intriguing and highly controversial website is all about.
The motive of CheaterNews.com appears to be that it strongly believes that victims of infidelity have the right to speak out about their own personal experiences, which they are able to do, anonymously, on the site's message board. The forum has sections divided by state, as well as sectons for those from Canada, Australia, the UK and the Philippines, where detailed accounts of incidents of cheating by spouses and/or boyfriends can be given. The chief controversy comes from the fact that the "specifics" might include the names of the offender, as well as the name of the person he has cheated with and may sometimes reveal where these individuals are employed or where their social hangouts are.
Some typical examples of stories that are posted tell about:
...A man who not only cheated on his spouse, but allegedly gave her an STD.
...A woman who found out a man she dated cheated on her with both another woman and a man.
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(Guest)
02/09/2010
that site is mostly just a bunch of idiot women who got cheated on and blame it all on the 'other woman' instead of their husbands. Luckily it seems to be dead now.
hy
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(Guest)
10/20/2009
rp is a cheater - anyone dating this person should be ware%21%21%21%21%21%21%21%21%21
this man devasted my gf
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(Guest)
09/03/2009
this man was involved with a friend of mine then cheats with this other woman who has a husband, this woman sends my friend pics and emails and threats and says oh no she didnt. i have seen these emails and they are disgusting. this woman is demented works for a company in new brunswick and is now threatening to screw up my gf's insurance. her ex what a putz must love to be so manipulated by this other woman or hopefully he will take his blinders off and see her for her true self, a master conniving manipulator who screws around. my gf she is devasted but still loves this man, but she doesn't him hurt like those two have hurt her. I hope Allen Pangburn of wapske new brunswick grows up and sees this new woman who he thinks he is in love with as she really is. A LIAR AND A CHEAT. People beware of Allen Pangburn and Denise Morin of Grand Falls
Cheatersnews.com.
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(Guest)
08/26/2009
I think cheaternews.com is great%2C I feel we are all responsible for our actions%2C and should be held acountable%2CWe the victums of these people should have our say%2C But we also can%27t stoop to their level. WE don%27t have the rite to put information which can ultimately result in violence%2C WE need to tell our story%2C But be careful not to mention last names%2Cadresses%2Cor things that could result in violence%2C then we are no better than the people we write about%21%21%21This Forum is a safe place for us to tell our story%21 The people who know them will know who we are talking about%2CThey will know what their friends and family member have done%21%21%21%21We are not out to get anyone hurt or killed.We just want to tell the world we are in pain.My EX-Husbands girlfriend sent me letters of the details of their afair%2Ccalled here looking for him%2C She is the stalker%21I will not stoop to her LOW LEVEL.
Cheatersnews.com.
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(Guest)
08/26/2009
I think cheaternews.com is great, I feel we are all responsible for our actions, and should be held acountable,We the victums of these people should have our say, But we also can't stoop to their level. WE don't have the rite to put information which can ultimately result in violence, WE need to tell our story, But be careful not to mention last names,adresses,or things that could result in violence, then we are no better than the people we write about!!!This Forum is a safe place for us to tell our story! The people who know them will know who we are talking about,They will know what their friends and family member have done!!!!We are not out to get anyone hurt or killed.We just want to tell the world we are in pain.My EX-Husbands girlfriend sent me letters of the details of their afair,called here looking for him, She is the stalker!I will not stoop to her LOW LEVEL.
Frngth?
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(Guest)
06/24/2009
It's all good; people should know of players or people playing 'games'.
michael lediju
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(Guest)
01/04/2009
Ifind out that my wife was cheating on me
can you help me. My phone #610-761-9378
ihave been calling the number on the tv but the mailbox is full.thanks
Dee
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(Guest)
10/09/2008
What happened to CheaterNews.com -- If someone cheats then their name and truthful details should be posted. Why is it necessary to protect these people?
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