Men and Communication in Reality Television

It is certainly not news to anyone- men just do not have what it takes when it comes to interpersonal communication. But what is it about this tried and true gender stereotype that feeds its existence? Various factors add to the growing myth turned fact. One of the instigators adding fuel to the fire is reality television. Various reality television shows portray men as quiet, subdued even, when it comes to talking about their personal lives, feelings, or experiences. However, when it comes to asserting their position in society, in the workplace, or even in the relationships, men are shown to be leaders and they take control of the situation by asserting their status and knowledge through conversation. By watching these shows, men can interpret their own behavior when it comes to communication as the norm or even learn new communication styles that seem to ascertain the men on reality television a higher place in society or in their personal lives.

According to Webster’s New Dictionary, communication can be defined as “The exchange of thoughts, messages, or information, as by speech, signals, writing, or behavior.” It is a vital tool in society because communication is the central point of verbally corresponding with others - it allows people to relay messages and express their thoughts, ideas, and emotions to a mixture of people. There are various types of communication and communication styles. The communication styles of men and women are just one example of such.