Detecting a Lie: How You Can Tell If Someone is Lying to You

By Daniel Shin, published Apr 20, 2007
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Lying can sometimes get you out of trouble, but other times get you into trouble. You have lied to someone before and gotten away, but can someone lying get away from you as well? A lie is an untruthful statement made to someone else with the intention to deceive, sometimes for the good and other times to cover up and mischief.

Our natural instinct is to trust others, and for day-to-day activities and interactions, it all does come down to that one word. That's why we save time, money, and energy by stating quick statements such as "That's a nice haircut" to "What a good day".

Here's a look at some ways you, the interrogator, can learn about lies and take control of the situation and see if someone is lying to you.

Types of Lies

A white lie is when the cause of the lie has no punishment if uncovered and offers some benefit to the liar of hearer, or both. For example when a friend has broken his leg you tell him that it's alright and he'll be fine to comfort him.

Lying by omission allows another person to believe something to be true that one believes is false, by failing to reveal one's belief, rather than being untruthful. This is a type of lie you would tell or show if you don't feel like participating in an activity or wouldn't be serious if you told the opposite.

Perjury is not the same as lying since it does not require an intention to deceive, and since it requires the statements made, under oath, be false as well as untruthful, and be about facts material to the hearing. Perjury is mostly used in court settings.

Bluffing is an act of deception that is not usually seen as immoral because it takes place in the context of a game where it helps the most. For instance, Texas Hold'em Poker and Spades are couple games that use bluffing as strategies.

Misleading is when a person tells a statement that isn't an outright dirty lie, but still has purpose of making someone believe in an untruth. For example when playing around with a couple buddies and you happen to knock over a glass vase and saying that it fell because of carpet bumped into the stand.

Dissembling is a polite term for liar or lying.

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Takeaways
  • Body movement can play an important role.
Did You Know?
Lies told on the printed page or on a TV screen may be the hardest to detect.
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My friend has been lieing to me.She called me fat because when we were at the park she was sitting on the monkey bars ,and i tried to get up and i had a little trouble cuz i went a different way ,and she said i am way to fat to fit in the monkey bars..ya she did.The girl who called me fat was my best friend Christine Vancise.my other friend cassie is now going behind my back too.

Posted on 10/12/2007 at 1:10:00 PM

 
good article!

Posted on 05/06/2007 at 8:05:00 AM

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