Guys: Places Not to Meet Women

From a Woman's Point of View

So you want to meet beautiful, intelligent women. They are out there, and they want to meet you too. The trick is, women want to be met at the right place and the right time, and want to be left alone the rest of the time. Here is a list of places not to try to pick up women.

The Gym:
At first glance the gym may seem like a great place to meet girls. Women are everywhere, and they are sweating, groaning, and scantily clad. Okay, this is the exact reason that women do not want to be picked up at the gym. We feel sweaty and gross, our makeup is running, and we really just want to be left alone to do our butt-blasters in peace. What's more, we don't want to feel like we have to avoid (or impress) certain people during our workout. The last thing we want is another disincentive to go exercise.

The Coffee Shop Table:
If a woman is sitting at a table in the coffee shop, intently working on her laptop, chances are she does not want to be disturbed. There is really no appropriate way to claim a seat at her table without making her extremely uncomfortable. Do not go up to a woman sitting at a table and ask if you may join her. If you really must meet her, wait until she is standing in line or walking around.

The Gas Station:
It is never a good idea to approach a woman while she is pumping her gas. This remains true even if you offer to pump her gas for her. A gas station is a place most women do not enjoy. It is a necessary chore that we must do at a dirty and smelly place. If you approach us while we are filling our gas tanks, you might freak us out.

A Traffic Light:
Finally, the most important place not to try to pick up women is at a traffic light. When a woman is sitting at the wheel of her car, in her own little world of listening to music and thinking, do not take a red light as an opportunity to pick her up. Women think of men who speak to them at traffic lights as a little bit off their rockers.

These are just a few places not to try to pick up women. The secret to finding a great girl is meeting her in a place where she feels comfortable and safe. You have a much better shot if she is in an approachable mood, and is not busy trying to get important things done.