Long Term Effects of Grade Skipping

Brandy Madison
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Many parents each school year are faced with the decision of whether or not grade skipping, or acceleration, is the right move for their academically advanced child. As the parent of a now Tenth Grader, who skipped the Third Grade, I can relate. When the school approached us about their opinion that
the best course of action for my daughter was to skip a grade, the decision to follow through with it was more difficult than I expected. When grade skipping is being considered by the school and parents of the child, the school understandably wants a decision as quickly as possible. If you find yourself in this position, and need some insight fast, please read further.

IMMEDIATE BENEFITS OF GRADE SKIPPING

There are definitely some immediate benefits to grade skipping. The most prevalent of those being, that the child is now academically challenged and stimulated by their school work. For those with a child who is bored stiff in a class where every bit of material presented is material that the child has long ago mastered, they know what it's like to watch their child lose interest in school, perhaps making statements full of frustration such as, "I don't even have to think in there!", as my daughter did in First Grade. While parents who do not face this situation may find it hard to see why this situation really needs some kind of resolution, those who do, understand clearly that to leave things exactly as they are may potentially cause their child to eventually lose all interest in school and learning. Once a child is skipped up, as in our case, it often becomes quite apparent to everyone that the child feels much more comfortable in this more challenging academic setting.

 
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Thanks for your this. Food for thought indeed.

Posted on 08/31/2008 at 7:08:26 AM

I skipped grade four back in the late 1970s and it really traumatized me -- I went from playing with barbies with my friends to hearing about a girl getting finger-f**ked at recess. I was born in December so I was almost 2 years younger than my classmates. I obsessed for several years about not having any close friends, not getting my period until the end of grade 9 (by then, my classmates were light years ahead of me in terms of puberty), etc. So I wish my parents hadn't let me skip a grade. It wasn't until my late 20s that I got over the need to be ahead of the curve, and the feeling that I was a failure if I wasn't. Find your child some extra-curricular enrichment, but don't push him/her into a different peer group. School is much more than just reading and writing.

Posted on 06/10/2007 at 2:06:00 PM

Thanks Carol and Lucy! We let our daughter skip 3rd Grade, at the recommendation of her school, but now that she is a Sophomore in high school, I wish we hadn't.

Posted on 04/30/2007 at 12:04:00 PM

Wow, really interesting. You brought up some good points that I had not heard mentioned about grade skipping before.

Posted on 04/26/2007 at 12:04:00 PM

Excellent food for thought.

Posted on 04/26/2007 at 10:04:00 AM

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