Are Your Children Safe at Church?

By Brandy Madison, published Apr 26, 2007
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Most people who attend church with children, naturally assume that their kids are completely safe when left in Sunday School classes, or in the church nursery. As in all situations though, parents cannot just blindly trust people that they do not know with their children simply because they are on church grounds. The fact that someone attends church does not miraculously make them people who are safe to leave your child alone with. Just as there are Pediatricians, teachers, and daycare employees who are dangerous to children, there are undoubtedly individuals sprinkled throughout churches in this country who are also dangerous to children. In case there are still parents who exist who have not yet heard the phrase, "Pedophiles go where children congregate", please consider this fact very seriously now. Pedophiles hang out at places like parks, near schools, playgrounds, public swimming pools, Chuck E. Cheese, Golf'N'Stuff, your local skating rink, video arcades, the toy stores, toy departments, and Disneyland. And of course, church. They enter into professions, vocations, and volunteer opportunities in order to be near children, such as teaching, Boy Scouts, sleepaway camp, and any other place where children gather. And whether you believe it or not, in some churches around the country, pedophiles teach Sunday School.

Of course, we have all heard the news stories of adults now coming forward with their personal accounts of having been sexually abused as children by the priests that their families trusted. However, what many people may not realize, is that the Catholic church is not the only one plagued by this awful trend. And if it isn't bad enough that these predators are making their way into positions of authority and leadership in churches around the country, abusing, or planning to abuse, the children of church members, what's worse is that the offending adult is not always turned out by the church when they are caught.

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Hello Brandy, I am thankful that there are numerous voices in our churches today talking about abuse prevention specifically and the larger topic of safety in our churches. I am blogging on this topic and have a corresponding website at www.take-care.ca . Feel free to use material from the blog for your writing. I want it to be a resource for churches anywhere that are looking for solutions. Thank you for your numerous pieces on child safety. rudy kehler

Posted on 04/30/2007 at 5:04:00 PM

 
This is certainly a good question to ask. Thankfully, the churches I've attended have very strict policiies in place to help protect children. It's amazing that the church you mentioned did nothing when the allegations were brought to their attention. Thankfully, I think most churches would have handled things differently than the one you mentioned.

Posted on 04/28/2007 at 12:04:00 PM

 
Lucy, you are so right. It's great that you stayed with your child until you believed you could trust the teacher. I think most people just automatically assume that their children will be safe at church (and they SHOULD be!), but I also think that pedophiles take advantage of that, and not enough people realize that.

Posted on 04/26/2007 at 8:04:00 PM

 
I couldn't agree more. I tend to be an over cautious parent anyway, but when my son first started going to Sunday school, we had just started going to the church and didn't know the teachers or anyone else, for that matter. I actually stayed in Sunday school with him for the first several months. The teacher was really nice and I became her helper. Now we know the teachers quite well and it is no problem for him to go to class without me. But, I am always amazed at how many parents just leave their kids with people they don't know.

Posted on 04/26/2007 at 11:04:00 AM

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