Fathers and Child Custody

Can a Father Obtain Sole Custody of Their Child?



Given the number of divorces occurring today and the number of families with children, it is not out of the question that a parent will go through a custody dispute.  Custody disputes have the potential for becoming some of the most bitter court battles
 that arise from a marriage. Obviously if husband and a wife are going through a divorce, it will benefit them and their children immensely to resolve as much as possible without having to go to Court.  The main way this is done is via an agreement, but that is not always possible.  When a custody dispute does arise, if there is one child and both the mother and father are seeking custody it is apparent that for a sole custody arrangement to be granted, only one parent can have custody.

So the question that arises for the fathers in such a situation is, “Can a father prevail in a custody dispute over a mother?”  The answer is yes; however, where one father may gain custody, another may not.  The reason comes in understanding the different factors a Court may examine in determining the issue of custody and how you can make the best of your situation if you are in a custody dispute.

First, it is necessary to understand some of the background in the area of custodial disputes.  It was not to long ago that some states had legislation that gave the mother a presumption in custody disputes; however, this is largely a thing of the past.  Today, most states us the approach of determining what is in the best interest of the child and many courts attempt to maximize each parent’s time with their children. The concept of best interest of the child is easily stated, but in application, understanding it is somewhat more complicated.  If there is a dispute as to custody, then this determination will have to be made.  So, this brings us back to the initial question – “Is it possible for a father to gain custody of his child or children?”  As I said, the answer is yes and to do so, it must be shown that the best interest of the child will be best served by the father having custody. 

Related information
  • Father's can prevail in a custody dispute.
  • Often Courts will use custody evaluators to better understand a case.
  • There is no presumption that a mother makes a better custodial parent.
 
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I HOPE this letter finds itself in the right hands: I apologize ahead of time for the lengthiness of this letter but I am desperately searching for help with a rather unique, complicated and utterly unjust "ABDUCTION" child custody matter. I will try to maintain a sense of fairness and perspective in describing my situation, even in acknowledging my own flaws, yet I am searching for action against this aggrievement. To make a long story short, I currently live in Tokyo with my current wife (a Japanese national) and our three children (U.S. Citizens), while my ex-wife has denied me court ordered visitation of our daughter for the past four (4) years. My ex-wife and daughter are in Germany where she hides behind the SOLDIERS AND SAILORS RELIEF ACT because of her current husband's military status. At this time, I want to file criminal charges of abduction with sever punitive actions taken against her and pray they are enforced with a swift and just hand. At the time of our divorce,

Posted on 10/05/2008 at 11:10:21 AM

WHAT IS G.A.L. AND COULD IT HELP ME IN CALIFORNIA AND MY DAUGHTER IS IN WISCONSIN! ACTUALLY ANY INFO THAT COULD HELP ME GET ATLEAST VISITATION FOR MY MOTHER IN WISCONSIN FOR MY SAKE KNOWING I'M IN CALIFORNIA AND CAN'T GET VISITATION IN CALIFORNIA FOR MYSELF. PLEASE EMAIL ME AT ROCKONCITYKREW@YAHOO.COM THANK YOU! GOD BLESS ALL THE FATHERS OUT THERE THAT ARE DOING IT RIGHT!!!

Posted on 06/01/2008 at 5:06:36 PM

Washington State is still very conservative, as my husband did not have a fair chance. He had supporting decs from all the teachers; his ex-wife even had CPS called on her by a friend for neglect and he still lost the custody battle. Ex wife didn't do any Doc or Dental appointments; again she didn't even know her daughter went to Girl Scouts. I do feel if he could have afforded a G.A.L. that he would have won. Fathers: SPEND THE MONEY ON A G.A.L. - even if money's tight! (That was not legal advice just a suggestion). Don't worry, ex wife is doing better, not perfect, but better.

Posted on 03/25/2006 at 3:03:00 AM

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