Breastfeeding: Educating Grandmothers

With the mounting evidence that breast milk is the only thing that should be fed an infant, new mothers are starting to choose breastfeeding in record numbers. At least 70% of new mothers start breastfeeding soon after their baby
 is born. Yet, sadly, more than half stop breastfeeding by the time their infant reaches six months of age.

A weak link in the breastfeeding chain is lack of family support. Breastfeeding mothers hear a constant stream of misinformation from the older generation of women in their own families. The truth is, most grandmothers and great-grandmothers did not breastfeed. Those that did, did not continue for long. Babies born from the 1940s to the 1980s were lucky if they got any breast milk at all. If they did, it was common practice to supplement with formula and introduce solids when an infant was just weeks old.

It is not that the mothers in these generations were any less capable or competent than modern mothers. They were caring for their infants based on the recommendations of doctors, nurses and their peers. Formula was touted as being far superior to breast milk and breastfeeding was considered low class. They educated themselves on the best way to feed their infants. Unfortunately, all the propaganda at the time said the best way was the formula way.

I believe grandmothers and great-grandmothers have the health and well being of their grandchildren in mind. But, they are still working with their own antiquated knowledge base. The only way to combat this and increase the breastfeeding retention rates in the U.S. is to start educating grandmothers on the benefits of breastfeeding.

Take Grandma to Breastfeeding Class

Breastfeeding classes are offered at hospitals throughout the U.S. Many expectant mothers enroll in these classes and take their partners. While it is wonderful to include your partner, you should also consider taking one or both grandmothers along. Educating the older generation on breastfeeding is like educating your own personal support system. These women will be giving you advice anyway. A breastfeeding class could ensure that they will not give misinformed advice.

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My own mother was extremely apprehensive about me breastfeeding. She just could not understand why I would want to do that!!

Posted on 09/11/2007 at 7:09:00 AM

It's fortunate that I don't base my parenting decisions on the opinions of extended family members. Otherwise, I probably would have formula fed. It's still unclear to me why such an important parenting decision is open for discussion or debate among adults who really don't have a say in parenting decisions. I vow to be an inlaw who keeps her mouth shut:) I'm pretty confident that if my daughter has children she will breastfeed since we went the extended breastfeeding route. I honestly think unnecessary family input is what accounts for the high number of moms who say they just "couldn't" breastfeed.

Posted on 06/05/2007 at 3:06:00 PM

I got lucky, my FIL is a D.O. and I got all kinds of support from that side of the family. My family was a little harder, but I just adopted the attitude that it was my child and this was what was best for it. Your body is equipped to provide nutrition to your baby in most cases. Though I think Rosie the Riveter is what really pushed people to formula. You can't breast feed your child as easily when you are working.

Posted on 05/24/2007 at 7:05:00 AM

This is a great article. I'm glad my family was supportive of my decision to breastfeed, but it would have been hard if they had opposed it. You gave some great tips for those who aren't so fortunate to have supportive families.

Posted on 05/03/2007 at 6:05:00 PM

Great article! Luckily for me my mom is very much a breastfeeding advocate. She nursed all of us for several years and tandem nursed with me and my younger bro. She would have been very disappointed if I had chosen to bottle-feed.

Posted on 04/29/2007 at 1:04:00 PM

Excellent ideas.

Posted on 04/27/2007 at 8:04:00 PM

Thanks for the comments, everyone!

Posted on 04/27/2007 at 6:04:00 AM

Great article! My daughter's grandmother and great grandmother's were SOOO resistant to my breastfeeding her! They acted like breastfeeding was the most twisted and unnatural thing there was. I tried, but there was no changing their minds. Hopefully, women can overcome the same kind of challenge with your great advice.

Posted on 04/26/2007 at 8:04:00 PM

Heather - You are lucky! I was lucky to be strong-willed enough so I didn't listen, but I have known lots of new moms who aren't.

Posted on 04/25/2007 at 11:04:00 AM

Luckily all of my child's grandmothers understand breastfeeding and think it's wonderful :)

Posted on 04/25/2007 at 11:04:00 AM

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