The Flaws that Women Have and Why the Men Do Not Care

Insecurities are often mistaken as the perceptions of others. Women spend endless hours in the mirror putting on makeup covering up scars, and trying to shed those last five pounds of their thighs in an effort to become more attracting to men. There is a myth
 that men actually care about such trivial things. Women are driven to emphasize the importance of vanity for the sake of attraction in men. There are few things women must know in order to keep their sanity and their confidence level up. The concept is easy; men are not concerned with beauty flaws.

Stretch Marks
Most women have them, and if they do not presently have them, they are likely to receive them resulting from the pregnancy process. Women who have gained or lost a significant amount of weight are also likely to have them.

Fact: They are permanent and they can only be faded over time. Men are well aware of this problem and they have shared the same concerns.

Carrying Extra Weight
There is no such thing as a perfect size. The average women is a size 12.

Fact: Men are more accepting of a woman's extra baggage than they are. An important trait to a man is self acceptance, whether it is a size 2 or a size 20.

Sagging Breasts
As women age, so does the rest of their body. This includes breasts that have lost tissue as a result from childbirth and breastfeeding.

Fact: Men understand how pregnancy and childbirth can affect a woman's body. Having perky breasts does not make a woman any less appealing to a man. Most are satisfied with just knowing they exist.

Body Hair
All women have hair in places where it should not be. Every woman does some form of grooming on a daily basis. This is another result of the aging process as well as hormonal changes.

Fact: Men know that it is normal and the daily routines women go through eliminate unwanted hair.

Birthmarks, Moles, Deformities
This is another thing that is natural for most people. Despite the fact that a woman might be missing a fingernail; have one leg longer than the other; have a big forehead, it has never made her less attractive to the opposite sex.

 
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Im not sure that men care,about your flaws,I do know however most of them would still have sex with you despite them,perhaps its just the animal in them,and they cant help themselves

Posted on 11/01/2007 at 3:11:00 PM

a woman is insecure everyone knows it, regardless of how great she looks. Hopefully this article can get more women to realize that.

Posted on 06/05/2007 at 8:06:00 AM

It all depends on what men you are talking about. It starts earlier on in life, on which women responded to you and which ones went out of their way to let you know that they are there. If those women were average, or not as attractive as the staus quo then yeah, you are more accepting of those shortcomings because those women were more accepting of you, and you already know that you can get along with those woman on some level. If those women were girls that everyone else wanted, and you know that you can get them, then yeah of course you're willing to hold out for them. It's also about your own insecurities; I've had all types of different women talk to me and take interest but it took years, and my own wives observations, for me to truly realize that. Sometimes it takes someone else looking in from outside of yourself to change the way that you view the world. If a woman takes care of her appearance, is clean, and feminine for the most part that is attractive, to me anyway, if

Posted on 06/05/2007 at 8:06:00 AM

Yes you are being quite generous with the depth you are assuming men have. We are shallow creatures and if we thought we really had a chance we'd hold out for the playmate that has the looks and the brains. But I have to agree with theBarefoot and Deez to an extent. After the shine wears off, we'd probably love whoever we have been lucky enough to be chosen by.

Posted on 05/10/2007 at 11:05:00 PM

I beg to differ. If men accepted women as they truly are, then why is there such a huge market for magazines like Maxim and Playboy who portray unrealsitic images of body types? Yes, women beat themselves up for their looks. But we wouldn't do it if men didn't push their 'ideal fantasies' in our faces. I couldn't tell you how many 'boyfriends' I've had who told me I would be more attractive if I got breast implants! Fortunately, I no longer place my self-worth on the size of my bra. Unfortunately, many men still do.

Posted on 05/09/2007 at 9:05:00 PM

You give men a lot of credit. I applaud you!

Posted on 05/09/2007 at 2:05:00 PM

It's a good thing for the human race that most men don't require a perfect 10, and that they all have different things they like or dislike in female appearance. My husband, for instance, hates seeing bones through skin; he prefers women who are real-sized, not model-sized.

Posted on 05/09/2007 at 12:05:00 PM

From the male perspective: Kendrah is right. We all have physical flaws and men are more accepting of a woman's appearance than she is. Clean? Well keep? Fair game! Psychos need not apply. :)

Posted on 05/08/2007 at 8:05:00 AM

Great article. That's what I'm screaming. I get tired of women complaining about their little imperfections. Everyone has them and men know this. If the man you're interested in doesn't realize that, he may not be the right one for you and there are plenty others who do realize it. :-)

Posted on 05/08/2007 at 6:05:00 AM

Kendrah, another great article. :] I've always enjoyed reading your work. Thanks for making my less-than-satisfying belly fat feel better!

Posted on 05/07/2007 at 11:05:00 PM

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