Ronald McDonald House in Houston Asks Woman to Stop Breastfeeding

Houston - This week, a mother, staying at a Ronald McDonald House, reportedly was asked to stop nursing her child and told to continue to do so could lead to her expulsion from the facility. The incident has create deep divisions within the breastfeeding
Ronald McDonald House in Houston Asks Woman to Stop Breastfeeding
 community as many mothers feel torn between defending the rights of the mother and supporting the good that RMH provides to families in need.

Jessica Swimeley came to the RMH in Houston when one of her 17-month-old twins needed to have brain surgery to remove a tumor. The child, whom is still breastfed, was nursing while the family was in a communal dining area. A staff member asked Swimeley to stop and told her she was only allowed to breastfeed her child in her room, which is located three floors up. Traditionally, rooms at RMH prohibit eating and drinking of any kind.

This statement has caused many in the so-called "lactivist" community to take notice. According to Swimeley's sister, Melissa Mayo-Laakso, staff at RMH cited an "oral" guideline, which was established the RMH states an oral guideline concerning breastfeeding was established out of sensitivity for the house's "multicultural residents."

The author of the Reluctant Lactivist, a popular blog on breastfeeding issues, writes, ""I must say I'm amazed by Naomi Scott's (Executive Director of the RMH Houston) creativity. I don't think I've heard the 'respecting cultural differences' argument for discriminating against breastfeeding mothers and children before, but it sounds to me like a new twist on the same ol' same old: The psychological comfort of adults who fetishize breasts is more important than the physical and emotional comfort of a young child."

At the heart of the discussion is section of the Texas Health and Safety code that discusses breastfeeding, which states, "A mother is entitled to breast-feed her baby in any location in which the mother is authorized to be." When Mayo-Laakso showed this to RMH staff, they felt they were not in violation since they provided Swimeley an alternative nursing location.

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No one should deny their child nutrition and comfort or be forced to hide in their bedroom simply because some people might have bad feelings about it. Why are the emotions of this mother not important? Using the restroom is a public health hazard, BR; it's unsanitary to do it in public, making it incomparable to breastfeeding. That person doesn't have the RIGHT to not be offended; they do have the RIGHT to look away, and I respect that 100%!!! No one should be harrassed for breastfeeding when they have a sick child in her arms. She wasn't asked to use some discretion; she was asked to take her 3 children up 3 flights of stairs to her room everytime her child wanted to nurse. I guess no one cares about how painful/discomforiting that is for this nursing mama--who was actuallyy paying $15 a night to stay there. RMH is run by DONATIONS; that means my money and your money is paying for those things, not RMH.

Posted on 04/30/2007 at 9:04:00 PM

I have breast feed all 3 of my children. I have stayed at multiple Ronald McDonald home's in the last 3 years with a daughter seeking treatment for cancer. I have and do serve in a volunteer capacity for a Ronald McDonald home in my community ( not one of the one's I have stayed in) I would not breast feed my child in the public areas for many reasons. Yes, cultural issues is a true consideration. Also, many mothers have children so sick that they can not breast feed at the current time. Breast feeding your own child in front of them would just make them more emotional. If the woman wanted a place to breast feed,she had a private room. She could have asked for a temporary sign to be placed on another room. Yes, she had rights but not at the expense of many others with rights in the home. I am very in favor of breast feeding. This lady just wants media attention.

Posted on 04/25/2007 at 7:04:00 PM

You know what? Using the restroom is natural too, but I'm not going to plop down and do it in front of a crowd. I don't feel RMH is in the wrong in this one. I know I wouldn't want my children seeing another woman's breast even if she is doing something natural. Maybe it is sad, but this is the culture that we live in, and if the sight of a woman breastfeeding makes someone uncomfortable, that person's rights should be respected too.

Posted on 04/23/2007 at 8:04:00 PM

When is our society going to get over worrying about the most natural thing in the world!

Posted on 04/22/2007 at 2:04:00 AM

there are more important things to worry about than a woman breastfeeding--so no one should care where she is breastfeeding----breastfeeding is very bonding and the mother has every right to enjoy this time w/her child. Since RMH does a lot of free stuff they should encourage breastfeeding because it's free

Posted on 04/20/2007 at 11:04:00 PM

Your headline is very misleading. RMH staff did NOT ask her to stop breastfeeding, they simply requested that she move to another comfortable, more private space because another resident with apparently lesser rights was disturbed. I fully support the right of women to breastfeed their children when and how they like, however I can also understand the other person's distress. Can't you imagine a situation where a parent is facing the possible death of their child and finds the sight of a mother and child in a breastfeeding posture painful? Can't we find a balance between legal rights and reasonable consideration for others feelings?

Posted on 04/20/2007 at 11:04:00 AM

Lisa T: Just because RMH engages in charitable work for families doesn't give them a free pass to violate Texas law protecting breastfeeding moms. Good article.

Posted on 04/19/2007 at 4:04:00 PM

Aren't there more important things to worry about than where or how you breastfeed when you have a sick child and you don't have the financial means to find a place to stay while your child is undergoing life-saving treatment. Perhaps, efforts should be placed on living every moment to the fullest and spending every minute with your child in the event the child does not live through this illness. I know from personal experience that the Ronald McDonald House does a LOT of good and this is nothing more than a drop-in-the-bucket inconvenience for ONE PERSON. Most people don't know that in addition to very low cost or free housing, the RMH provides free transportation, free food (some meals cooked and served to you), free long distance calling cards, free activities for children and adults, and free entertainment such as tickets to baseball games and Disney on Ice. To bash RMH over a small incident where a mom was made to feel uncomfortable and asked to use some discretion seems a lit

Posted on 04/19/2007 at 2:04:00 PM

there has to be a better solution!

Posted on 04/19/2007 at 12:04:00 PM

how horrible! I read her thread over on MDC and I can't believe the way they've been treated.

Posted on 04/18/2007 at 4:04:00 PM

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