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Study Shows Americans Have Sex 85 Times a Year

A recent study reports the average American has sex 85 times a year, far behind the Greeks, who average sex 164 times a year, and the Brazilians, who average 145 sexual romps each year.

For those of you that like to keep up a weekly tab, the American average works out to about twice a week or once every 4.3 days. And Americans aren't just lagging behind in quantity, but also quality. Only 48 percent
 say they're fully satisfied with their sex life. Perhaps the other 52 percent should consider spending a little more time. The survey shows that the average American sexual encounter lasts all of 18 minutes.

The numbers are part of the Durex Sexual Wellbeing Global Survey, which was released this week. The survey canvassed 26,000 people in 26 countries about their sex lives. Those questioned were a representative sampling of each country's population, according to the survey results.

The average among the 26 countries surveyed is 103 times a year. Here are some figures from other countries: Japanese average only 48 times, Nigerians average 84 times and residents of Hong Kong average 82.

The survey also sheds light on possible causes for the low numbers. More than third of respondents believe their sex lives would be better if they weren't so tired and didn't feel so stressed. Around a quarter of respondents wish sex were just more fun.

And then there are the health problems. Just over 30 percent of men report having difficulties with having an erection with another third having problems sustaining one. Five out of ten women have painful sex.

And the big O? Around sixty percent claim to do it frequently.

Dr. Sari Locker, a relationships educator and the author of "The Complete Idiot's Guide to Amazing Sex, says that time is probably behind many of the problems in America's sex life...or lack thereof.

"We need to invest in taking time out with our partners, de-stressing ourselves and lifestyles and introducing some romance into our relationships," she said in a written statement.

 
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Well... all I'm going to say is that this was eye-opening to say the least. Not so much for me as for my wife. We're both tired often, because we have small children. But whereas I'm ready to go, sex-wise, on what's at LEAST a daily basis... she's far more complacent about it. She's even used the gut-churning phrase about "wifely duty." Maybe I'm a terrible lover, maybe she's mad at me for other things, or maybe she's just not sexual for some reason... but at the end of last year, I decided to keep track (used a website created for exactly that, tracking your sex life). The result? A pitiful 28 times in the past 12 months... or around once every two weeks. My wife says she's interested in improving on that number (though she wasn't too happy to discover I had tracked it), mostly inspired by this article. If we could even get it to every four days, that would be a massive leap forward. We'll see.
Maybe I'll move to Greece
I am Greek, and to be honest i do know that Greeks are by far the best in sex according to Durex researches. What i don't know for sure is that the average Greek guy makes sex 164 times per year but i can assure you that is definitely much more! Me and my girlfriend are together one year and 14 days and we make sex at least twice a day, plus the other girls i have but ssshh! that is secret! :)Also Greek girls are by far the best in bed, i have made sex with girls from 11 diferrent countries but no other girls come any close to a Greek girl. They are AWSOME!!! I suggest you to try find a Greek girl, try her and then you will realise what i am saying!!
I'm not of Greek or Brasilian heritage, but feelin' like a Super Greek- Brazilian kind of guy right now!
I liked the article. Please read my just published article called "Sex and the Adoptive Dad."
Interesting. I teach English in Thailand and I did a recent segment on the sex lives of other countries with my corporate class (they loved it!) We were all surprised that countries like Finland, England, Poland etc. have much better sex lives than Americans, then it dawned on us why - there's NOTHING to do in these countries :) Then again, for quality I like my Thai boyfriend thank you LOL.
The low number for Americans doesn't surprise me...that's why I married a foreigner!
Very interesrting. Thank You fer sharin'. ;-}}>
bad sex is bad. but women even charge for it. they really shouldn't complain because even in the worse situation they can get in when they want it.
I'm curious about this five out of ten times sex being painful for women report. This could be one of the many reasons why sex is not happening as much in America. That or people are starting to take more responsibility for themselves when it comes to casual sex, getting to know their partner, and of course sexually transmitted diseases. I wonder out of these statistics, which country has the most STDs. Vanity Fair did a twelve-issue report on the problems with HIV/AIDS in Africa. Anyway, interesting article.
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