It's not that hard to talk to a girl. Give it a try.
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It happens to everyone, you'll be standing or sitting somewhere and suddenly you find yourself alone with a girl. It's time for simple conversation. What do you say? This article is for guys who have a little trouble starting and holding a conversation with a girl.
As with most things in life, the nature of your conversation will depend on the circumstances in which you've found yourself in a position to speak with her. Have you seen her around and were hoping to get to know her better? Is she a complete stranger? Are you attracted to her, or were the two of you thrust together by others?
While the nature of your conversation may vary by circumstance, the general guidelines for doing so generally do not. Below are ten very simple tips for help in how to talk to a girl.
1 - If you're the shy type, and you probably are if you're reading this, before you speak one word to the girl, tell yourself this one thing. Girls are human beings too. They are not goddesses or mystical beings. They are not better than you. They are just as ordinary or special as you are. Tell yourself this and try to believe it, because it's true. There is no one on this earth that is more special than you are. We are all created equal, regardless of looks, wealth or even confidence level. None of us is any better than any other. We are only different.
2 - Start by introducing yourself. Tell her your name and perhaps what you do for a living. Shake her hand. That will be your clue to tell her you've finished speaking and are now ready to listen.
3 - Listen to what she says. Hear not just the words but the meaning. Repeat her name in your head several times. Think of a pneumonic device if you have to. It's a good thing to remember her name. That will get you a lot of points in anyone's ledger.
4 - If she tells you what she does for a living, ask her some questions about the specifics. It's possible she might do interesting things. If she doesn't tell you when she introduces herself, ask. If she seems reluctant to talk about her job or career, try asking about her hobbies.
As with most things in life, the nature of your conversation will depend on the circumstances in which you've found yourself in a position to speak with her. Have you seen her around and were hoping to get to know her better? Is she a complete stranger? Are you attracted to her, or were the two of you thrust together by others?
While the nature of your conversation may vary by circumstance, the general guidelines for doing so generally do not. Below are ten very simple tips for help in how to talk to a girl.
1 - If you're the shy type, and you probably are if you're reading this, before you speak one word to the girl, tell yourself this one thing. Girls are human beings too. They are not goddesses or mystical beings. They are not better than you. They are just as ordinary or special as you are. Tell yourself this and try to believe it, because it's true. There is no one on this earth that is more special than you are. We are all created equal, regardless of looks, wealth or even confidence level. None of us is any better than any other. We are only different.
2 - Start by introducing yourself. Tell her your name and perhaps what you do for a living. Shake her hand. That will be your clue to tell her you've finished speaking and are now ready to listen.
3 - Listen to what she says. Hear not just the words but the meaning. Repeat her name in your head several times. Think of a pneumonic device if you have to. It's a good thing to remember her name. That will get you a lot of points in anyone's ledger.
4 - If she tells you what she does for a living, ask her some questions about the specifics. It's possible she might do interesting things. If she doesn't tell you when she introduces herself, ask. If she seems reluctant to talk about her job or career, try asking about her hobbies.
- When talking to a girl you don't know, be polite and brief.
- Keep the conversation light and upbeat.
- Always remember, girls are human too. If you're nice, they usually won't bite.
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Oscar
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12/16/2009
Hey guys.I'M Going to show you How to talk to a Girl. Will first choose a girl do you like and then walk up to her and you will say to her (Hey ! How you doing ? ) and she will say Good! and after that you ask her .What is your name ? and she will say Maria . Will my name is Oscar nice to meet you and then talk to her like I like you hair and she will say thank you ! talk to her , Look her in the eye, what she going to say tell her about Hobbies and what are you going to do this weekend and she will say something like going to my Family and try to respect her okay! just keep talking conversation.If you have any question you E-mail Me ! oscarhernandez1993@yahoo.com
Sgt. Ken
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12/13/2009
first of all guys, it's hard, but it will get more complex if you struggle talking to them. Me I'm trying always let the girl know your trying even though it's tough and sometimes you don't want to be denied, but stuff happens and also this might happen to you guys a girl you ask out then she says no, then later on she will ask you out and you will say no to her maybe or maybe no you decide on that part, but true just time also and take your time, not always will you win a girls heart by rushing things i should know. Just be yourself and always challenge your self to do things you never did so that you can do the hardest thing like if it was nothing to you, it will work with time just try
Dave S
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11/24/2009
Not bad tips. I also found this free ebook and its pretty good. Shows you how to seize a woman's attention, how to engage and stimulate her emotions, how to rapidly arouse her body without even touching her, how to make her feel things she reads about in romance novels and more. You can download it from here for free. Thank me later :) http://sharecash.org/download.php?file=151888
thatsuckz
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10/22/2009
hey diego, if this is how you're gonna spk to a gal "yo wat up man yo i cant talk " LOL, believe me you wont get a shit!
diego
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09/26/2009
yo wat up man yo i cant talk to my girl man help!!!!!!!!!!
andy
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09/17/2009
ok my name is andy and i really like this girl and for somereason i can never hold a conversation for more than 20mins and she loves to talk so if u have any ideas that i can use while talking to her plz email me and andresherrera12@yahoo.com
Luke
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09/09/2009
Alright so me and this girl really like each other, but when i'm with here i can't seem to hold a conversation and when it's over i don't know what to talk about to start a new one. Someone PLEASE give me ideas on what to talk about. E-mail me at Lukas_Lukowicz@hotmail.com
rosson
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07/31/2009
steps why do you not trust guys
native jaggernaut
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07/24/2009
she will only talk to me in person not online. I come up with the dumest conversation how do i fix that?
baby
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06/19/2009
well i said to a girl whats u!
then i ask her in a next speech
i love your eyes.
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