Women Fishing for Men: How a Woman Can Hook the Right Man

One of the main quests in life for a woman is to find the right man that she can not only love but be happy and content with, and actually like. Fishing for a man can bring in a lot of catches on the hook, but most need to be thrown back in, not because of any flaw on the man's part, but because they simply are not right for you.

In order to be successful in finding the right man, a woman first needs to know herself and she needs to love herself. Loving yourself is paramount to a relationship working out. Knowing who you are, your likes and dislikes, your feelings about various things, and your own personality are key factors necessary for a healthy relationship. Generally speaking, you want a man that matches your personality.

That sounds easy enough, but it's not that simple. Too often both men and women bottle up their emotions, their feelings, their thoughts. Maybe it's for fear of rejection, maybe they are afraid to share how they truly feel, maybe they don't even know how to share, maybe they are just scared to love again after past hurts. Whatever the reason, in order for a relationship to work, both parties have to be open and be themselves so that who they are shines through, rather than hidden behind a wall.

The kind of man you want should be someone that accepts you for who you are and loves you as you are. He doesn't want to change you. He doesn't criticize your looks. He doesn't make you feel inferior or that you aren't good enough. He loves you as you are, loves your personality, loves everything about you. He is open and honest with you. He won't tell you what you want to hear, he will tell you the truth. He's understanding and considerate, and he listens when you share your intimate thoughts and feelings with him.