Should Men Who Abuse Women Have to Register like Sex Offenders and Have Their Names Searchable Online?

By Casey C, published May 07, 2007
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If men had to register after they have been charged with abusing a woman, it would make it easier on a woman if she knew whom the man really was. Most women who get involved with a man have no idea he could have the potential of abusing women. Many women are being abused on a daily basis from their partners. This extends from verbal abuse, physical abuse, or even both. Men who abuse women will show signs at first before the relationship even gets serious. Most women do not pay attention to these signs; therefore, they enter a relationship of the unknown. There are a few ways to lesson the chances of a woman getting involved with an abuser. First a woman should notice the signs before things get to serious, although, some abusers may not show signs of abuse until the relationship prolongs. There are a few signs an abusive man will show at the beginning of the relationship,

Signs of a potential abuser are:

First off he will want to know your every move.
He will become jealous of your friends and your relationship.
He will call you often when you are not together, even calling you at work.
He will search through your purse for phone numbers etc.
He will make you change your clothes if he doesn't approve of what you are wearing.
He will seclude you from your friends and family.
He will not allow you to wear make-up outside of the home.
He will control all the money in the relationship.


Should Men Who Abuse Women Have to Register like Sex Offenders and Have Their Names Searchable Online?

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I agree. He should have to register. Look at the website www.howtospotadangerousman.com It is very helpful. Five Stars! and good work by the way.

Posted on 05/20/2008 at 12:05:39 AM

 
That's such a good point. Those losers should be alone, and this would keep women from dating them, getting hooked into the abuse, and too scared to leave. YES, this should ABSOLUTELY be done. Very smart.

Posted on 02/06/2008 at 1:02:58 AM

 
Spider Lady say a many of men who abuse a women are sex offenders. Manya lady don't even a know that...if he ha a sex with you when you to drunk to say yes or no, that is sexual battery. Many a lady do not a know if her control you money, issolate you from friends and family or her a call you names that is abuse, too... Spider Lady a say if he abuse you, get out, it a never gets better. Spider Lady a say if you friendis involved with an a buser and you no a tiell them, a shame on a you!

Posted on 12/01/2007 at 11:12:00 PM

 
This article is about men who are abusive. No where in this article does it say women are not abusive. If it will make you feel better go write an article on women who are abusive ok?

Posted on 06/14/2007 at 2:06:00 PM

 
Your article is unbelievably sexist and biased. More men are REPORTED as abusers, but that doesn't mean there aren't plenty of physically and emotionally (not to mention financially) abused men out there. Why single out women for special attention? Do they hurt more than men?

Posted on 06/13/2007 at 10:06:00 AM

 
Criminal Abuser,Stay away from Ranal J Gooler of Rockland County

Posted on 06/10/2007 at 8:06:00 PM

 
I was beaten by a male friend , he beat me so bad I spent 6 months in a HOSP. THEN ANOTHER 6 months in Phys therapy. My skull was broken 7+,I use to be Prom Queen and now I look like mush face.If you come in contact with Randal J Gooler of Tompkins Cove,BAIL Fast

Posted on 06/10/2007 at 8:06:00 PM

 
Yes, I know that women can be controlling and verbally abusive to men. I recently did a quick check of 100 couples I personally know. Maybe someday I will get the article written. In most instances the jealous woman that is going through his stuff, is doing so because he is cheating on her and she is unable to trust her instincts, so looks for proof. An innocent man should walk away from insecure and jealous females. Females should run from the jealous man before he starts beating her or kills her when she tries to leave.

Posted on 06/09/2007 at 12:06:00 PM

 
Men who abuse women can be very charming, sweeping the gal off her feet. I wanted to start a website for abused women to list their abusers, because I only located one "don't date him" site. The abusive man goes on to the next one painting a picture of his ex as "the witch queen of New Orleans" and the new lady believes him. Until the time she realizes he is abusing her as well. So even a website or register will not do much good. Men know women are "easy"~they believe in love and they are practiced in the art of deception.

Posted on 06/09/2007 at 12:06:00 PM

 
The percentage of male abusers is much higher than it is for women. Women do show some of the signs I have mentioned in my article but most don't go beating the man.

Posted on 05/09/2007 at 1:05:00 PM

 
My article is about MEN. I didn't say women do not abuse others.

Posted on 05/09/2007 at 1:05:00 PM

 
Then also to be fair WOMEN as well should have some kind of database for their abuses towards men. If a person has a criminal record they have a criminal record, so before dating one should bring with them a credit report and background check. This would fix a lot of problems. Never mind the entire issue of privacy.

Posted on 05/09/2007 at 11:05:00 AM

 
Just in reading your so called call signs of an ABUSER. I can make those same claims of WOMEN. She goes through your phone, and through your pockets. Jealous of your friends, does not allow you to spend time away and with your family or friends. Will try to control you and your life from the meals you eat by just claiming is making "recommendations or advice" with strong persuasion. None of what was said was very gender specific. If you are with a woman whom constantly complains and throws fits,always sees all flaws but her own, is insecure about her looks and her life...RUN THE OTHER WAY. She is nuts.

Posted on 05/09/2007 at 11:05:00 AM

 
Great article. I think that this should be something that should be looked into. Every day many women are beaten badly or die due to abusive husbands, partners, etc. This could be a way of letting other women know about someone before entering a relationship. It could save lives.

Posted on 05/08/2007 at 11:05:00 AM

 
We can only hope that one day they will make this happen. It could save alot of women from getting involved with an abuser, that could also lead them to death from the abuse.

Posted on 05/08/2007 at 8:05:00 AM

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