Animal Domestic Abuse: The Silent Victims

Animals Suffer from Domestic Abuse, Too

By Mary Kirkland, published May 06, 2007
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To most of us with pets, they're part of the family and we treat them as such. But in homes where there is violence, the family pet may become just another object to threaten or harm in order to keep the family members who are being abused from leaving.

Most shelters will not allow you to bring your pets with you when you leave an abusive partner, that is until now.

Opening soon in Las Vegas, Nevada is a place called Noah's Animal House. A place where people who need to go to domestic violence shelters can also bring the family pet if they feel the pet will come to harm if they leave. The Shade Tree Shelter is adding a place where resident's who stay at the shelter can temporarily house their family pets as well.

There will be veterinary services available and foster parents willing to take special pets such as farm animals that need more space.

The effects of pet abuse on children

Children who live in abusive families and also see pet abuse suffer even more trauma as a result of seeing their pets injured, or threatened with the possibility of injury.

Many times the abuser will threaten, harm or even kill a family pet in order to punish or control a child. A child of abuse is twice as likely to grow up to become an abuser him or herself.

The effects on pets

Many pets who are abused will be very timid when the abuser gets near them, sometimes urinating on themselves out of fear, which will make the abuser angry and start the pattern of abuse all over again. Some animals will get aggressive after being abused.

From the HSUS - Family Violence and Animal Cruelty:

"My first client came in very apologetic and said, 'I have to go back home.' I tried to tell her
she didn't,... she said, 'no, you don't understand.' She pulled out a picture that her mother
forwarded her that her husband had sent...They were pictures of him chopping off the ears of
her dog with gardening shears.

'I have to go home...If I want to save my dog's life and the lives of the other animals...I have to go
home...' We never heard from her again."

-Wisconsin Domestic Violence Center Safe Haven For Pets - HSUS

Animal Domestic Abuse: The Silent Victims

Pets are sometimes abused in homes where Domestic Violence is present.

Credit: Mary Kirkland

Copyright: Mary Kirkland

Takeaways
  • A new facility is being opened in order to help abused pets.
  • Abuse effects the entire family.
Did You Know?
Many of the abused put off leaving because they fear for their pets safety.
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Las Vegas is so hard on homeless people (many homeless become so through abuse) that it is heartwarming to hear they are pioneering this very caring approach to helping save pets as well as people.

Posted on 06/18/2007 at 3:06:00 PM

 
This article is so true and heartbreaking.

Posted on 06/07/2007 at 10:06:00 AM

 
Thank you all for reading and commenting. Animal abuse just sickens me as much as any abuse, but to do it do an animal or defenseless child is the lowest of the low.

Posted on 05/23/2007 at 12:05:00 AM

 
Good article, thanks!

Posted on 05/20/2007 at 6:05:00 PM

 
I just hate people who abuse other people or pets (or any wildlife for that matter).

Posted on 05/20/2007 at 7:05:00 AM

 
Thank you Jean, I know reading about animal abuse is terrible but I think if more people know it's going on then maybe something can be done about it.

Posted on 05/19/2007 at 10:05:00 PM

 
Abusing animals or people are no different in my book and are really inner-connected. I hope more towns follow suit with the Noah's Animal House. Good article but now I have to go watch something heartwarming on TV to get rid of the image of the garden shears on the dog's ears.

Posted on 05/19/2007 at 10:05:00 PM

 
Thank you all for your comments, I'm glad you liked the article.

Posted on 05/18/2007 at 6:05:00 AM

 
Powerful, insightful, painful... Thanks for this read.

Posted on 05/15/2007 at 7:05:00 AM

 
What a sad situation. Thanks for bringing a light to it. I have heard a saying that I love, "Bless the beasts and the children for in this world they have no voice they have no choice".

Posted on 05/14/2007 at 11:05:00 AM

 
thank you for writing this article

Posted on 05/13/2007 at 2:05:00 PM

 
As you point out, animal abuse is a big problem among domestic abusers. And also, don't forget the fact that many murderers (including the teenage Columbine killers) "practice" by torturing and killing animals first. It's a scary world. Thanks for highlighting this important issue.

Posted on 05/12/2007 at 12:05:00 PM

 
Few things piss me off faster than people who abuse animals.

Posted on 05/12/2007 at 1:05:00 AM

 
Thank you so much for writing this article, Mary. Stuff like this makes my gut twist. I'm glad to hear some shelters are allowing animals now.

Posted on 05/12/2007 at 12:05:00 AM

 
I just hugged both my dogs after reading this. I, too hope they open more shelters that allow pets. Thank you for educating people on this.

Posted on 05/11/2007 at 9:05:00 PM

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