How to Handle a Tantrum from Your Baby

Keep Your Cool

It will amaze you how fast your little baby is growing, it will feel like they should not be as old as they are, and it will really hit you when your baby throws a tantrum for the first time. You may notice that from 6-12 months old that your baby begins to throw somewhat of a fit over
 something.

Tantrums with babies can be difficult because you can't just explain to a baby that they can't have something because it could hurt them like you could to a 5 year old. Plus the frustration that the baby has is far more severe than that of a 5 year old. When your baby is getting into something that could hurt them and you take it away and they begin to throw a tantrum here are some things that you can do to help your baby get over the situation.

Distract

Show your baby an alternative toy that they can play with. By attempting to play with them you will increase the chance of them stopping their tantrum because they will be eager to play with mom or dad. You can starting playing a game of peek-a-boo or sing to them to get their attention.

Change the Location

If your baby refuses to forget about the thing that made them mad then pick them up, if you aren't already holding them, and take them into another room. The change in scenery may get their attention and they will be more likely to calm down.

Look Outside

Go over to the a window a look outside, the shining sun may get your baby's attention if going into a different room didn't distract the them enough. This usually will get their attention and help them forget that they had something taken away from them. If it is night time you can open the fridge to get their attention for a second, as long as they don't mind that they can't reach for what is in there.

Wait it Out

The over all best thing that you can do during a long tantrum is to keep your own cool and comfort your baby and wait it out as best as possible. This can be frustrating as parents but remember your baby's frustration is a lot more.

Explain Yourself

Related information
  • Some tantrums will be short, some will be long.
  • Distract your baby with a toy or begin to play with them.
  • Walk into another room with your baby to distract them.
 
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great article...:-)

Posted on 08/11/2008 at 1:08:11 PM

picking him up works good but i heard that picking them up will encourage the tantrums cuz they know they will just get picked up

Posted on 12/16/2007 at 9:12:43 PM

Wonderful advice. A lot of how one handles a tantrum will depend upon the general temperament of the child.

Posted on 06/02/2007 at 7:06:00 PM

You've definitely been hit by the idiotic derater. Maybe he just doesn't like kids. I thought this was really good!

Posted on 05/30/2007 at 12:05:00 AM

Ya, I am not really sure what happen there Heather.

Posted on 05/28/2007 at 3:05:00 PM

This is a great piece. Looks like a jerky downrater hit it :(

Posted on 05/28/2007 at 2:05:00 PM

Great advice. :) Distraction is a great tool at this stage.

Posted on 05/24/2007 at 2:05:00 PM

Very informative - thanks!

Posted on 05/22/2007 at 4:05:00 PM

My youngest daughter has always thrown tantrums. As she gets older they get fewer, and more spaced apart. I always gave a popcicle and it worked some of the time :)Great article. I agree waiting it out is the best way to handle a tantrum.

Posted on 05/22/2007 at 2:05:00 PM

Great advice! I think one of the biggest challenges for parents is to stay emotionally objective rather than getting caught up in the child's frustration. Not always an easy task! Having tools like these can be incredibly helpful.

Posted on 05/21/2007 at 11:05:00 PM

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