How My Dad Became a Sugar Daddy

Mom and Dad were married for 50 yrs. Mom died of cancer 3 years ago.

We had a nice family. 5 kids, grew up in suburbia in New Jersey.

Now Dad has a new family. He has become a Sugar Daddy to a 50 yr old widow, who was Moms friend.

This Gold Digger is a neighbor of my Dad. (and Mom). All any of kids heard about her was complaints from Dad. She has money problems, she has a disabled son, she has SO many problems.

The bomb was dropped to us in January. Dad had a girlfriend. We didn't even know he was dating. He wasn't. He never even grieved my Moms death. He wouldn't leave the street he lived on. He didn't see his long time friends. He even stopped shopping at the local grocery store so he wouldn't see his long time friends.

My oldest sister set this up. Big Sis was never part of the family. She left the house when I was 5 and she got married and had her own family. Big Sis hated Mom. When Mom died, Big Sis was telling Dad at her funeral he needs to date. Big Sis told him to take his neighbor out to dinner. He did. But it was just that, dinner.
Until, the widow saw the old widower as an opportunity. Here he was, with his big house, Lexus and another house in Florida. Here she was, needing a Sugar Daddy. This is how my Dad became a Sugar Daddy.

I started asking everyone I knew what they thought or knew of this situation. I created my own research, since I couldn't find much on-line. There really aren't any statistics to be found about older men with younger women. It's just the whole, May- December scenario. How it doesn't work, but could if they are really in love. What I found was just the basics How, a older man wants a young woman for ego. How a younger woman wants a older man to take care of her. I did find Internet sites like SugarDaddy.com. Yeah, that had real substance.