How to Help Your Husband With Erectile Dysfunction

Sexual Health Issue Thats Not Just a Man's Problem

Picture it - you’re 47 years old, you exercise everyday, buy your skincare at the cosmetic counter of an upscale department store, and you make sure you’re wearing something soft and subtle when you go to bed just in case he’s in the mood. It’s been weeks and you’re really getting to the point where you need to be held by him, stroked by him, and told you look beautiful. You need sex. Meanwhile, he’s already snoring. Sound familiar? Maybe it’s time for you to look into the problem. Many men by age 40 are on medication for hypertension, high cholesterol, diabetes or some other illness that affects them sexually by either lack of libido or lack of erection. It’s wonderful that these drugs can stabilize a condition that may otherwise kill them. But, where does that leave the woman in his life?

Women may also suffer from some of these same conditions to say nothing of the struggle through debilitating troubles that accompany reproductive organs and/or menopause. However, it’s a known fact that women tend to do more research to find answers. As we move into the 21st century, men and women have so many resources at their fingertips, such as the Internet, books, and magazines relating to health issues. However, the most important resource of all is your doctor. Most men are unwilling to discuss erectile dysfunction with anyone including their spouse or doctor, thus, forecasting a very grim future for a healthy sexual relationship.

On the other hand, his partner is determined to enjoy the second half of her live, which includes sexual intimacy. In this situation, what can a woman do when her partner is reluctant or embarrassed to look for a solution? Here are a few suggestions: