Potty Training Made Easy: Follow This Method for a More Pleasant Potty Training Experience

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Potty training is something that every parent will have to endure at least once. It can be trying and something that might be dreaded by most. There are many mixed messages floating around and everyon
e has their own ideas and methods. Many doctors will tell mom and dad that a toddler will train themselves when they are "ready." It is my personal belief that this is the biggest mistake that any parent can make. Waiting for your toddler to magically become "ready" can lead to a preschooler who still is not potty trained. Nobody wants that and it makes the child feel badly, as well.

The first thing that you must understand is that it's not the child who needs to be ready, but the parents. Many parents simply do not want to fool with potty training and procrastinate as long as possible on starting. This will do nothing more than cause problems and make the whole process even harder. Having successfully potty trained three children expediently; I feel that if parents approach this obstacle using these simple tips they will be pleasantly surprised.

Resolve yourself to the fact that potty training is going to be messy from time to time and definitely inconvenient. This is a temporary situation and it's best to just deal with these facts and move along. It is going to require a bit of effort on your part and is not something the child will automatically know how to do, so be prepared.

It all begins on the child's second birthday...not a day sooner or a day later. A child at this age is still very receptive to pleasing their parents and has not fully developed a mind and ideas of their own. Catching a child at this malleable age is paramount to a successful potty training experience. When at home during the day put the child in a tee-shirt that is a size too big so that it's like a short gown. Do not put training pants, pull-ups, or diapers on the child. Instead, allow him or her to run about the house freely with nothing to hinder them if they need to go. Be prepared for a mess or two, but remember that it will all be worth it in the end.

  • It is a myth that your child will potty train himself when he is ready.
  • Potty training must start on your child's second birthday.
  • Do not use pull-ups when potty training your child.
 
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Oh, and by the way (to the person who is now deleted), no emotional harm or any of that nonsense will occur if this is done correctly. All of my toddlers were very happy and proud to have been using the potty and they were never mistreated. Anyone can irrepairably scar their child if they are mean and abusive about any aspect of childrearing. As angry as you sounded in your message, I'd guess you should not be around a child.

Posted on 09/23/2007 at 5:09:00 PM

Heather, I'm just telling you based on my experience having raised three children past this point and potty training all three successfully. Everyone has to make up their own minds how they will handle it. I never had one problem at all and nothing but success. My sister-in-law, who had many problems potty training her first child by following the adage that they will do it when they are ready has now found that my method is successful. Her second child just turned two in July and was completely daytime potty trained within two weeks of his birthday. It might just be a coincidence, but I doubt it. I truly don't believe that people give their toddlers enough credit. But, to each their own. This idea is out there for those who want to try it and see for themselves.

Posted on 09/23/2007 at 5:09:00 PM

Hmm, I don't think this would work with my son. All kids need a different approach to parenting based on their individual needs. :) Good ideas though. I also agree with another commentor that two isn't the magic number. The last two muscles children develope control over are the muscle between the thumb and index finger and the sphincter, and this can take up to 2 1/2 years or even more.

Posted on 09/14/2007 at 9:09:00 PM

I liked this. I have a ton of friends that have young boys. They have all waited until they are three because that is what you hear from the doctors now. They have had the hardest time becasue they are more strong willed when they are this old. Most of them are either still struggling or didn't get them trained till they were four or older. I do not want to wait this long so I am going to start soon. My son will be 2 in Aug. If it takes a year I am fine with that but at least we will be mostly finished by that point and not just starting. Thanks for the tips.

Posted on 06/09/2007 at 3:06:00 PM

That's a really good idea, handlingthetruth. I've heard of putting cheerios or fruit loops in the toilet and having them try to sink them. I didn't try that though...but I'm sure it would be fun!

Posted on 05/12/2007 at 1:05:00 PM

A friend of mine trained his son by putting a squirt of dish soap in the toilet and let him "make bubbles." Whatever works, I guess! LOL!

Posted on 05/12/2007 at 12:05:00 PM

This is basically how I trained my first child. However, I waited until he was nearly three. So, it took almost a year. My little one now is definately starting at two because I found out the first time that waiting only gives them time to decide that diapers are easier.

Posted on 05/11/2007 at 7:05:00 PM

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