Shopping Advice for the Boyfriend: What Type of Lingerie Nightwear Should I Buy Her?

As a general rule for most women, and I say most because there are some exceptions, you should refrain from buying your girlfriend, wife, or fiancé trashy lingerie nightwear. In most cases, women detest the lingerie nightwear that consists of crotchless panties, leather, vinyl or
 other trashy lingerie of that nature. If you think about it in women's terms, (yes I know a woman's mind is far too complicated, so just bear with me) a woman is not going to want to receive a gift of lingerie nightwear from her man that is so trashy she'd be afraid to let anyone see it, and would have a hard time getting rid of it as she would never want to be seen with it in her possession. She may also get the wrong message from you and be made to believe that you think of her as a woman who would wear something so low on the class scale and will probably get angry with you; and we all know you don't want that.

We're going to continue speaking in "most" terms because of course there are always exceptions to the rule. So, most of the time, women like to receive lingerie nightwear that is girlie and delicate, yet makes them feel sexy. Tasteful is a key thing to keep in mind. A few good examples of acceptable lingerie Nightwear would be a silky satin slip with a little lace or ribbon. Or a sexy, cute matching bra and underwear set. These types of lingerie nightwear are still sexy, but will make any woman much more comfortable in them, which in turn will boost her confidence making her sex appeal go way up. It's truly a win-win situation. Stay away from the nylon and black leather unless you know for sure that it's something she's into. Otherwise she may send you running for the hills with your tail between your legs. Feminine and stylish: the two keywords to keep in mind when you are shopping for lingerie for the lady in your life.

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I by no way meant to imply that leather or vinyl is trashy; only that some women may consider this type of lingerie to be distasteful to them. I'm sorry if this has offended anyone. I did not intend to do so in any way.

Posted on 08/28/2007 at 2:08:00 PM

I take offense to referring to vinyl and leather as 'trashy'. It is fetish lingerie, and many respectable women and men alike enjoy both wearing and seeing it. Buying it for someone who does not enjoy it is offensive, yes, and people should check with thier significant other before making such a bold, and often expensive, purchase. But simply because others have a different view on what is sexy does not imply that they are trashy or low class. They are different-and that is okay.

Posted on 05/11/2007 at 12:05:00 PM

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