Relationship Damaging Mistakes Women Make

Too easily these days, we can just walk away from a relationship if it doesn't seem to be working out. I am one who believes in commitment. There are only a few very major things I will refer to in the last section of this article that are worth ending a relationship over. Everything else is just common problems that can be handled properly as soon as they are recognized.

I don't mean to offend anyone, I only want to offer help. You may read this article and recognize something you do. Of course you have a reason for doing it, but it is important to recognize how that behavior makes problems much worse than they have to be. I recommend this article for both men and women, to better understand the roots of why the communication isn't working properly (ummm, maybe cause we're different?!) and to help put the spark back into a fire before it completely dies!

One of the most common mistakes I see women make on a regular basis occurs when they are having an argument with their partner. In fact, many of the mistakes women make occur during this time. The first I will mention is calling your partner every 5 minutes.

Most often, this occurs when there is an argument and your partner leaves. Whether they tell you where they are going or not, this action confuses women and pushes them to lose their mind.

Typically, women want attention in this situation. If they are upset, and they take off... they want to be followed. However, men choose to let the women cool off and let them go. (Note to men: this is a relationship mistake you make. Women tend to feel as though you just don't care. This can be crushing if not rationalized.)

When men take off to 'cool down', women do what they want mjen to do. They either follow, or call and call and call. This is a relationship mistake because it aggravates the man. Men need 'space' or they just get angrier. An argument should not involve constant aggravating. It should be handled like any other problem, with both partners in a clear state of mind, working together to find a solution.

If your partner needs to cool down, don't keep heating them up!

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