The Signs of a Gifted Child

My Child is Gifted…Now What?

By Lost Angel, published Apr 02, 2006
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Earlier this year my Kindergarten-aged daughter came home with a letter from school. I curiously opened the envelope and started reading the letter that was enclosed. To my surprise it was a letter from her teacher requesting that my daughter be tested for “giftedness”. I thought to myself, “Wow, I know she’s smart but I never thought she might be gifted”. Needless to say I was ecstatic with this news. I signed the form granting permission that my daughter be tested and went about my daily business.

A few weeks later, my daughter once again handed me an envelope. I eagerly opened it and was shocked…my daughter passed the test and it revealed she is indeed gifted! I hugged her and proceeded to dance around the room as she eyed me suspiciously.

When the euphoria died down and after several phone calls to everyone I know who cared enough to listen to my good news, I was left thinking, “Now what?”

It’s an overwhelming feeling; being happy with the knowledge that my child is doing well beyond her age and worrying at the same time how I can continue to motivate and guide her accordingly.

Thank God for the power of the internet and the amazing wealth of knowledge imparted by psychologists, teachers, parents of gifted children and gifted kids themselves. The information I’ve gathered helped me come to terms with this newest milestone in my child’s life.

This article will be the first of a series exploring things parents should know about their gifted children so that we can help them reach their fullest potential.

We will start off with the characteristics of a gifted child. 


The Signs of A Gifted Child


1. Very curious and asks a lot of questions

Kids are naturally curious and quite inquisitive. With a gifted child however, he/she goes s step beyond merely asking questions, most of the time they actually act on it. As an example I will share some of my experiences with my own child.

Takeaways
  • One of the newest member of MENSA is three years old.
  • There are many good programs for gifted children available now than in the past.
  • There are various state organizations dedicated to gifted children and their families.
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Avita, not sure if you'll stumble past here again, but check with local universities, or call the school your child is slated to attend. Different states have different laws about early entry and testing varies. You can usually obtain discounted testing through universities, but some say you get what you pay for. Depends on the student who tests your son. Good luck!

Posted on 07/07/2008 at 10:07:12 AM

 
Interesting... I have a 4 and 1/2 years-old who knows the alphabet, upper and lower cases, counts to 100 and above, since he was 3 1/2 years-old. I feel he is not making any progress in preschool. He's still pretty much at the same level. I taught him the alphabet and counting and try to teach him as much as I can but don't know how to teach reading and math for his age, I don't have the skills to do this. He always knows what he wants and is never undecided (toys, movies, books). I do not know whether hi is gifted or not and I would like to have him tested. I just don't know where to go for that. Maybe somebody can advice. Also, his birthday is after the cut-off date for kindergarten, so he has to stay one more year in preschool which I think is a waste of time for him. Is there any way/any place he would be accepted in kindergarten this fall being 4 and 9 months?? Thanking in advance to those who can advice!

Posted on 05/04/2008 at 3:05:48 PM

 
On first reading, I was unsure if this was a parody or not. It reads like something from The Onion - "while watching a movie, she even cried at the part where the bird died! It wasn't even a main part of the movie!! OMG!!" Most of what you're describing sounds like pretty typical behaviour for any young child. Perhaps your daughter is gifted; but the 'evidence' you've posted here sounds like arrogant, vapid boasting.

Posted on 12/02/2007 at 4:12:00 PM

 
Is it an advantage or a disadvantage? As it happened to my son, it is the latter. As we watch his classmates receive their awards, he's just playing about, bored not knowing what is going on. I intentionally said to him: "Baby, you don't have an award." He answered: "I have a gift", pertaining to a wrapped box waiting for him to open it after he receives his diploma. It touched me.

Posted on 03/20/2007 at 10:03:00 PM

 
My son just graduated from pre school. He's 5. He started reading at 3 and really advance in many ways from kids his age, intellectually. Emotionally, I'm not so sure, yet one thing I'm sure of, he has retained his innocence. I'm thinking of bringing him to a center to have him checked for giftedness. What motivated me to do this is the fact that he graduated without an award of any sort, just because he has a higher IQ level. It's not about the award, it's about doing something about his giftedness if he really has it. I never received any acknowledgment to this effect before graduation. I only learned that he's not having any award on his graduation day (minutes before the citation of awards) because he is not of the same level as his classmates! Shouldn't we, the parents, have known beforehand? The whole community knows about him being ahead in many ways in class, now he graduates without any acknowledgment? 'Because he has a higher IQ?' Is it an advantage or a disadvantage? As it h

Posted on 03/20/2007 at 10:03:00 PM

 
My son just graduated from pre school. He's 5. He started reading at 3 and really advance in many ways from kids his age, intellectually. Emotionally, I'm not so sure, yet one thing I'm sure of, he has retained his innocence. I'm thinking of bringing him to a center to have him checked for giftedness. What motivated me to do this is the fact that he graduated without an award of any sort, just because he has a higher IQ level. It's not about the award, it's about doing something about his giftedness if he really has it. I never received any acknowledgment to this effect before graduation. I only learned that he's not having any award on his graduation day (minutes before the citation of awards) because he is not of the same level as his classmates! Shouldn't we, the parents, have known beforehand? The whole community knows about him being ahead in many ways in class, now he graduates without any acknowledgment? 'Because he has a higher IQ?' Is it an advantage or a disadvantage? As it h

Posted on 03/20/2007 at 10:03:00 PM

 
Wow!!! Maybe it comes from the genes!

Posted on 04/03/2006 at 5:04:00 AM

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