Wedding! Wedding! Wedding! Means Party! Party! Party!

The wedding season is peak time for celebrations. We celebrate love, family and unity. You've realized that he is that into you and you're finally making it legal. You'll want to party as long and as hard -and as responsibly - as humanly possible because after that comes the marriage. So why not start off with a bang?

The typical wedding-season soiree line-up includes the engagement party, the bridal shower, a bridal lunch/brunch, the bachelor party and the rehearsal dinner - all occurring prior to the wedding ceremony and wedding reception.

Here are some tips on doing it up right:

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What - THE ENGAGEMENT PARTY

Who - Thrown for the participants on the guest list by either the bride's or groom's parents, or the family friend. For example, this is the party that Wilona (from Good Times) would throw for Thelma & Keith.

When - Take at least three solid months to organize and coordinate schedules with as many on the guest list as possible.

Why - "His" and "hers" truly become "ours" when both families and BFFs (best friends forever) meet, mix and mingle in a relaxed and festive environment prior to the wedding.

Where - Try picking a place that bears some emotional significance or special memory for the happy couple, like the location of their 1^st date, where he/she proposed, or where they first met. It shows that you really gave it some thought and that sentiment can go a long way even if your dollars don't.

How (much) - Forget what you've heard: SIZE MATTERS. Check the wedding guest list, and then check it again. If your bride or groom comes from a large or extended family, weather permitting, you may opt for an outdoor setting. Remember, the engagement party should not cost as much as or more than the wedding.

Build on the theme of the wedding or choose décor that illustrates the bridal colors. You can even incorporate similar flowers from the bride's bouquet, if you have that information before hand. Keep it simple; that way everyone can have a good time and linger leisurely.

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What - THE BRIDAL SHOWER

Who - Thrown by a member of the bridal party (bridesmaids or maid/matron of honor) for the bride.