Stop Making Excuses: You're Just a Booty-call

Stop making excuses: you're just a booty-call

"He works all the time and is too tired to hang out with me."Oh but he isn't too tired to call you over at two o'clock in the morning for a late night early morning rendezvous. Trust me I was this girl that made up every excuse in the world to prove to myself that he really did like me. But I got wise and am now not single because of it.

Ladies why, why do we help them treat us like garbage? Seriously think about it. If he really truly likes you like you say that he does then it would not matter how much he worked or if he just came out of a relationship. If he really liked you then he would be with you. That is the bottom line.

When you really stop and think about it they have it made because they know that you are defending their actions. They know that they can call you any time and anywhere and you will leave what ever you're doing and be at his beck and call. They get all the good parts of the relationship without the commitment and you let him.

Oh but wait that's right you can always change him. Listen to yourself! You can't change anyone and who would want to? And stop changing who you are. What if you do land your man and you start dating. Do you have to keep being this other person? Go out there and find a guy that likes you for you.

Top excuses women give there booty-calls: He really does like me but...

He just got a divorce and is scared of commitment

He has children and doesn't have time for me

He likes to go out with the boys all the time but that's ok because when we are together he makes me feel really special.

He is really busy at school or work

He lives far away

He did buy me dinner the other night (McDonalds doesn't count honey)

He is going threw a lot right now

He couldn't get to a phone or his was dead

I could go on and on with this. But seriously if he likes you then he will do the same thing you're doing and he would make the time for you. Stop wasting your time on these losers and find someone genuine. I promise you that you can't change him and if you could you would have already.