Steps to Help You Save Your Romance Relationship
Only if your partner has started to be honest with you and is not telling lies anymore. If your partner is truly sorry about that he or she cheated on you then you should forgive them over time. It takes time to be able to forgive an individual for actions such as cheating. Not everyone who cheats is a bad person. Your partner who cheated on you can't just expect you to just forget about it overnight or even over a year. It takes months and even a year or so to get over something like that since cheating is a form of deception.How can you get the images out of your mind?
Images of your partner in bed with someone else is something difficult to get over. A few things that can help you get the images of out your head is to remember that person who cheated with your partner isn't one to brag about. She or he isn't some perfect person. If you two decide to work on your relationship despite cheating in the past then remember the other man or woman wasn't that great. Try to remember the times that you and your partner did things together. Try to forget about the other person that use to be with your partner.
Will he or she not cheat on you anymore?
People who cheat often have low self esteem and therefore don't think very highly about themselves. If your partner is truly sorry for what he or she did then they will never cheat on you. People who aren't really sorry for what they did then they will often do it again and try to get away with it. People who want to keep on cheating they just try to hide it better and hope to not get caught again. Some people lie to their partner and keep cheating. You need to decide if your partner is one that would be able to bring him or herself to be able to cheat on you. Only you know how sorry he or she may be for cheating on you in the past. Do what you think is the best for you to do in regards to the romance relationship.
- Forgive your partner for cheating.
- Begin to heal from cheating.
- Get the images out of your mind.
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j
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01/31/2010
I understand that cheating is bad but people make mistakes. i am and still in a 6 year relationship with the guy that i cheated on 3 years ago and i just came clean and now he wont talk to me the reason i took so long to tell him was that i did not want to hurt him but recently we talked about starting over new so i came clean because he already knew about it and wanted me to admit to it but the thing is he also cheated on me before and recently a year ago so since he put all the cards on the table i figured the right thing to do was do the same thing. i havent cheated on him since and am not planing on do it at all because i want to work it out but now he wont talk to me. i just want to know if we will get through this and why is it harder for a man who cheated to forgive a woman for cheating.
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12/19/2009
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12/18/2009
This article is so poorly written. "A lot" are two words.
Advise
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11/30/2009
u can always forgive but u cant forget. to tell u the truth its easier to forgive, my girlfriend cheated on me for 4 months of our 7 month relationship, and for the first time i seen her feel complete guilt, i am forgiving her but that doesnt mean pictures dont haunt me once in a while. The way u can go about doing so, is all u have now is the thought, it was the past and already happened, and being upset about it cant change that, make sure ur partner learned from there mistakes. have him/her prove that they caould earn ur trust bak.
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03/09/2009
I have been dateing this guy for 7months and everything was going fine, atleast so i thought untill girls started to call his phone and curse me out for him. We moved pass all of that and i forgive him for lyin to me. Then agin he did it over and over. I cant seem to forgive him any more because it hurts me when he tells me he loves me and telling other girls the same it just makes me feel nasty. I cant trust him no more no matter how hard i try and want to. Girls still call his phone and he hides and answers and am tired of it. I just want to give up on him and on love. I just need to find love someone tell me what to do because this guy is sick!! he cant stop cheating!! cheating is his drug i think he gets off on this shit.
Chase
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03/05/2009
Life seem's like a dream. I have been dating this girl named Shay for about 8 month's now. You may think oh there 15 how could they be in love? I am in love with her, and it hurt me sooo bad to find out she's been talking to this kid, texting him etc.. i just moved in with her to tennessee. Her parent's went through legal guardianship, cost about $700. Now she's been kissing some other guy for about a week now. I Finally found out yesterday. I went to go fight the kid. And it just didn't feel real at the time. My family lives in Florida and im in Tennessee, what do you think the best choice is for me right now ? I was very controlling always hasseled her about who she talked to, and what boy's shes talked to everyday.Do you think i should forgive and try to trust her? Do you think she cheated because i was too controlling ? please someone give me advise. I need it the most right now.
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01/12/2009
my husband cheated on me after 12 years of marriage..i am so hurt inside that it is hard to forget, forgiving will take time but how do u ever forget that someone you would give your life for hurt you so badly??
joe shmo
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12/08/2008
me and my girl of 2 years hit a pretty rough spot. i cheated a few times, and she never found out, but i love her than life itself. about a week later she started hanging around some new friend and her guy friends. she got drunk, cheated with one, and made out with another, over the cource of like, 2 or 3 weeks i guess. i only knew she kissed one of them mind you. so i go on a rampage of angry texts to this guy only to find she had sex with another guy, when i confronted her about it, she was hesitent, but she sobbingly confessed it to me, i feel she is sincere, but we had already had trust issues and this sure as hell didnt help. ive done wrong, and she has told me she is willing to do whatever to be with me, but im afraid the trust might be gone. i love her so much, and i cant stand not to be with her, she is my muse, but i feel like im going to get sick when i think about her being railed on by some guy while she is drunk. i dont know. worlds a crazy place
EMC
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12/04/2008
I am still not sure what to think. I started to notice things with my wife (We have been together 6 years married for almost 5) and I kept asking only to be ignored and pushed away...
I kept watching and noticed things changing. First the way she treated and reacted to me, then the life inside her computer...
My best friend of many years was the one I found out just today that she cheated with... she blames me for all of it saying I did not do chores or care for her...
First they got drunk at our house and she kissed him and flashed him... I let that go. I tried to tell myself they were drunk... but I knew there was more.
A few weeks later my best friend finally got married... he had been engaged for over a year.... I spent a lot of money on his bachlor party, my wife for the wedding everything...
After that my wife really got distant... she refused to talk abut anything answering had turned into "I don't Know" or "Whatever" and it had been for a long time... I did not
Yusi
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11/27/2008
I usually feel like i have done a mistake by forgiving my boyfriend who after 4 and a half years had cheated on me! But i think he is truly sorry about it as he had changed for the best. I am sad that now i don't and can't trust him like i did before :.(
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