Problems With the National Foster Care System

The Government and WE Are Responsible! Are YOU Doing Your Part?

With ALL the problems in our nation’s foster-care system, nothing short of a major overhaul would serve as a lasting solution to this national disgrace.

For years, children have been sentenced to navigate the system have been promised refuge from abuse and neglect in their own homes. However, without the state/county agencies being held accountable by no one, foster care remains as inconsistent, abusive neglectful and dysfunctional as
 many of the homes from which the children were removed from in the first place.

Without cohesion, leadership and accountability, the system continues to fail too many of the 500,000-plus children assigned to it. Once these children age out of the system at eighteen, the state sees the effects that this broken system has on society.

It's like all of a sudden you're 18 and they expect you to be an adult, but the system doesn't teach you to be an adult. It's one thing to be sad about being in the system but still have a roof over your head. It's another to be sad and homeless and unemployed. That's what the stats say I will become.

For the 20,000 youth nationwide who emancipate - or "age out" - of the foster-care system every year, nothing is more terrifying than the number 18.

It is on this birthday that these youth, many abused and neglected before and after entering the system, are expected to instantly become responsible adults. While many children outside of the system are eager to leave home at this point, their parents often serve as a safety net in times of financial or emotional need.

Most emancipated foster children do not have this luxury.

They are moved from house to house, forming few, if any, long-lasting ties to any of the adults they are forced to live with. Then, at eighteen, they are instantly cut off from a system that never prepared them to live on their own.

Related information
  • 500,000 American children are in foster care
  • 20,000 foster care children will reach 18 this year and age out
  • Only 50% will complete high school and just 2% will get a college degree
 
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I encourage all of you to try and try harder not just for yourself, but be "HOPE" for the children left behind in various foster homes. My heart goes out to you all. I was blessed, my grandmother took care of me. I feel your hurt and disappointment. I also feel your success and struggle to make a positive effect on your life. The truth is, it is difficult for everyone, but it appears more difficult for young adults with no directions or skills. By the grace of God you all will make it, b/c you are determined. You are willing to forgive and that is a true sign of healing and letting go of the past. You are not successful, b/c of your past, but b/c you use your past as a tool to be the beautiful and handsome young person you will become. Lotsa of love and God bless you!!!

Posted on 06/02/2009 at 11:06:53 PM

how can this problem be solved ? i don`t understand, we see the problem what can WE do to solve it ? what type of proposal do you have for this situation ?

Posted on 06/01/2009 at 5:06:33 PM

blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah

Posted on 04/15/2009 at 11:04:10 AM

I am turning 17 years old and im the 4th child. i have one older sister who has 5 children in the foster care system. the first three children curently 5,3 and 2 have been in the system since the 2 year old was born and the next two children she had was taking away from her a week after they were born. the youngest was recently taken away in January of 2009. the baby is now 4 months old. my mom has tried to become a foster mother for her grandchildren, however due to her medical health she is unable to take care of them. she prays everyday for the kids to be ok. the kids a move from foster home to another foster home and they have become victims of neglect from their own foster parents and the episcopal from the bronx has not done anything for 2 years until my mom came in to take action. now they are ok but the system is still corrupted in so many ways that people fail to realize whats really going on in the system and their rights to make their children safe.

Posted on 03/31/2009 at 9:03:46 AM

HELLO MY NAME IS ASHLEY THE PAST FOUR YARS I TOOK CARE OF TWO CHILDREN SINCE THEY WERE BABIES AND NOW 4 AND 5...THEY WERE ABONDEN BUY THERE MOTHER WHO WAS A FRIEND OF MINE AND I NEVER TURNED THEM INTO TO FOSTER CARE CAUSE I DIDNT WANT THEM TO GOT THOUGH ALL OF THAT ESPEACILLY AT SUCH A YOUNG AGE I WAS ABLE TO KEEP THEM OUT OF THE SYSTEM FOR 4YRS THEN ON JANUARY 14,O9 CHILD WELFARE SERVICES CAME AND GOT THEM AND PLACED THEM WITH COMPLETELY STRANGERS ALL BECAUSE THERE MOTHER SAID WHEN SHE GOT OUT OF PRISON SHE WANTED THEM BACK TO TAKE CARE OF THEM..THESE KIDS DONT EVEN KNOW HER AND THEY ONLY KNOWN ME AS THERE MOM AND MY FAMILY AS THERE ONLY FAMILY NOW AFTER FOURS YRS THERE REAL FAMILYS TRYING TO STEP UP.....IT HURTS ME SO MUCH CAUSE THE CHILD WELFARE SERVICES ARE TREATING ME LIKE I DID SOMETHING WRONG....THEY WONT LET ME SEE THEM OR EVEN GIVE THEM BACK TO ME ALL CAUSE THE SAY I HAVE NO RIGHTS CAUSE IM NOT BLOOD RELATED....BUT I WOULD THINK I HAVE SOME KINDA RIGHTS TO THEM AFTER TAKING CA

Posted on 03/23/2009 at 9:03:29 AM

money to live on your own or if you want to even want to go out and live with someone that you love or with someone that you truly care about and maybe start a family someday of your own and earn the responsibility of taking care of something to you love so much. I believe that I can take care of my own self by my self. If you would like to talk to me my e-mall is Storlie_06@hotmail.com.

Posted on 03/22/2009 at 1:03:57 PM

Hello my name is Jackie and I will be 21 in April and I have been live in a adult foster/group home for about 2 and a hafe years and I have been in this system pretty much my whole entire life and I cant stand it any more and I wish that I was out of the system. I also have had 2 guardians for the past 3 years and I don't see the point about having one. I know that I can take care of my own self I am not a 3 year old any more even thought they treat me like a 3 year old and I can't take it anymore. All I am trying to say is that I would like to be treated like an adult than a child. I have wanted to be out of the system for a good 2 years and I wish that I could be out of the System. I just wish that I could live my life the way I want to live it with out having to ask if I could go here or go their. What I believe is that when you turn 18 that you should be able to make up your mine on if you want to move out into the real world or you want to live at home for a year until you make

Posted on 03/22/2009 at 1:03:29 PM

I became licensed to take in my nieces. All went well for about a year until my teenager decided she wanted to live in "Independent Living" this is the States way of moving these kids before they are responsible for college. It broke my heart and soul...I will never again get involved, it's all about money, whatever is the cheapest option is how they "spin it"! Beware of the WIN PROGRAM, it's a ticket for the State to get out of paying for college....she fell for it and so did I, sad.... they use these kids for their own purpose. Welcome to Nevada!

Posted on 03/17/2009 at 9:03:59 PM

I really like how you look into the foster care system. I am 17 years old and will be emancipating the second of next month. I have experienced a lot in my time of being in foster care. I been in the system since I was 6 years old and my first foster home lasted for 3 years. She was a real abusive person. She use to kick me in my back when I did something wrong, send me outside to sit in the cold at night, make me stay in the closet, and never gave me any personal hygene accessories. When I finally moved, I got placed in a home and lived there for 6 years. My foster father was mulesting me frome the age of 11 to 15. I was too scared to tell because I told before about my father and thats how we got into foster care in the first place. I didn't want his family to end up like mine. When I finnally did tell, which was March of this year, I had evidence of emails he sent me and everythig, but the county did not halp me in any way, besides taking the foster children he had at the time. He's

Posted on 12/18/2008 at 9:12:37 AM

Wow! You're amazing. This helps me so much. I am a foster care child, but I luckily have not had to face half of the thing that the others have had to face. That's why I want to make a change, I want to be that difference. I don't think that D.S.H.S and other social services are doing enough to keep children safe. They are being placed into homes that are worse than the one that they were originally in. Its great to know that there are people that do care for children like us. But I will not be one of those children that are looked down on and are most likely NOT to succeed. I will be different. I am writing a research paper and I would love it if you could help me in anyway with it. My email is noemismiles@hotmail.com . Thanks for everything you are very inspirational!

Posted on 11/05/2008 at 7:11:27 PM

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