I Married an Atheist

By melpol, published May 26, 2007
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Living with an Atheist had been a new experience for me. But it is a refreshing one. Since I recently left my marriage to a devoutly religious woman a whole new world has suddenly appeared. The openness that I now share with this new woman has enlightened me to a human quality that was missing from my long and shallow marriage. That openness is called honesty. We both know and accept the full range of who we really are, and communicate in truth rather than in hypocrisy. At first the exposure to such a raw person was frightening, and I didn't think it would last. But I awake one morning before she did and looked at her unkempt and natural body, it was then that I realized I was living with a genuine human being. That is the moment when I fell fully in love with her.

My Atheist woman was the most selfish person that I ever met. She was motivated out of pure desire and gave of herself only for herself. She reminded me of a pet cat that I used to own, but my woman was infinitely more interesting. When she was reading a book that book became her whole world, I didn't exist until she was finished and ready to eat or make love. It was then that she became even more perfect. Not only was she a great lover but she was also a fantastic cook. I never knew that there were so many ways to prepare a delicious meal, and she knew them all. Her personality and conversation were so stimulating that there was no place else in the world that I would rather be but at her side.

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I married 2 atheists and they are as different as night and day. Marrying one atheist is just too small a sampling to come to any valid conclusions although it is fun to speculate. The most selfish person I know, who comes to mind, happens to be a Christian, but I don't think believing in the theory of evolution or the theory of a supreme power has anything to do with selfishness or morality, based on my lifetime spent in both worlds. Remember, "By their fruits ye shall know them". I do not know, but I am willing to bet that the majority of criminals in the US are Christian. That wouldn't mean that Christianity produces immoral people, but that the religious preference of a person doesn't change the person significantly either way unless it selects for gullibility. It would be interesting to see if belief in Santa Claus or bigfoot is more prevalent in religious groups than in atheist groups. I read a comment that atheists believe in the obvious.

Posted on 03/14/2008 at 1:03:52 PM

 
With you I just can't be sure whether or not to take you seriously. You certainly give one something to think about.

Posted on 10/04/2007 at 10:10:00 PM

 
As An Atheist I would find it impossible to have any deep relationship with a person that believes in the super-natural.For the sake of peace I wont publicly comment further on this sensitive subject.

Posted on 09/13/2007 at 9:09:00 AM

 
I always marvel at couples that are willing to navigate the waters of a relationship when their value systems are differnt. For instance, a very good Catholic niece just married a Jewish guy. If one truly believes that Jesus was not the promised Messiah and are waiting upon His first appearance, versus waiting upon His second coming, it is hard for me to see how there could be harmony in the home. Carl Sagan, I recently read was an atheist as well as many other renown people who contributed to society. I often think religion is the root of all evil and wish there were more atheists on earth. Or that religious people applied their principles.

Posted on 09/13/2007 at 9:09:00 AM

 
The only person you are guaranteed to have a relationship your entire life, from birth to death, is yourself. Looking out for number one, yourself, is important. People who do so are often seen as selfish, but selfish is more being unable to share, wanting all the cookies in the box, when one is not starving and can unselfishly share. I too get wrapped up in a book and do not want to share my time when reading. It is kind of the same with watching a movie. After getting involved in the plot, the two can discuss it.

Posted on 09/13/2007 at 9:09:00 AM

 
Tammy - I too am an atheist, and loved how this man spoke of his wife being selfish. Selfishness is a VIRTUE. It's a GOOD thing, and has nothing to do with "loose" morals.

Posted on 07/22/2007 at 6:07:00 PM

 
I sincerely hope you're not eluding to the fact that all Atheist women are selfish or have loose morals. Is this a "lesson" of Atheism or just your own experience and nothing more? I'm glad this relationship left you a little more open-minded but for everyone reading this, please realize most Atheists are just regular (read: good) people and not shifty, mysterious creatures with spinning heads or something.

Posted on 05/27/2007 at 5:05:00 PM

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